Saturday, May 29, 2010

May Divas

Our May Diva outing included celebrating Allison's birthday, the only estrogen-pumped female in our group. I don't know that I miss the estrogen, but happy that my daughter is still young enough to have it. It dates me a little younger too.One of her gifts from Jan and Darlene was this pair of glasses, which has her posing as a believable schoolmarm. Always the good sport. I hope she hangs onto them because they might come in handy in a year or two.
We so missed Cathy who would be celebrating her one year anniversary as a Texas Diva. Unfortunately, a family emergency called her away and we understand, even if her presence was missed. But we did have a bonus. Paula F. took time away from her busy schedule to visit with us again. It was wonderful to see her and we hope she makes it a habit. Nothing like a good habit.


We happily indulged in chocolate flan, compliments of Paula P., the Diva Baker. She can put together some sinfully delicious desserts. Her birthday is next month in June and I'm wondering what possible creation could top the chocolate flan or the carrot cake. Thinking caps on, ladies.

Thanks also go to Paula P. for sharing pictures of our night together. Only one of mine turned out due to my camera's refusal to focus. I'd admit that I'm just not good at photography, but the truth is several others used my camera and with the same blurred results. I love that it's small and metallic pink, but will have to resort to the bigger black one from now on.
Thank you to everyone, for without YOU, the Texas Divas just wouldn't be any fun at all.

Sunday, May 23, 2010

Rhyme Time

A number of years ago I compiled my small collection of poems into notebooks to give to family members and friends. The following poem is one I wrote for the cover page.

My Poems

My poems can take me anywhere,
To places far and wide.
Or enter the chambers of my heart
To reveal what's there inside.

I can climb the highest mountains,
Describe a panoramic view.
I can paint a winter landscape
Though the morning's fresh with dew.

I can write about my feelings,
Somehow it always clears my mind!
And pull up pleasant memories
Of another place and time.

My poems can tell of sweet romance,
Of love that's strong and true.
I can detail every hurt and tear
When that love affair is through.

My poems can travel, see, and feel,
I'm the actress on the stage.
Whatever part I wish to play
Will be recorded on some page.

1995




Monday, May 10, 2010

Happy Birthday to Allison & Brian!

There's an advantage when a couple shares the same birthday: You're not likely to forget the occasion. And I don't think anyone will let Brian forget that he turned 40 today. And we probably don't have to remind Allison that she is younger.The Birthday Couple are the proud parents of Jude, Baylee, and Sophia. It warms my heart to see how much they love their children. Each child feels extra special and sure of their place in the family. I'm thrilled, too, to know that Brian knows the joy of having Daddy's Girls. There's nothing like it.
I'm so proud of the woman Allison has always been. She was easy to raise, she was loving and funny, and had a beautiful character. Those attributes still shine brightly today. Plus, she's a wonderful, nurturing mother and a loyal and priceless member of our family.
This is my favorite picture of Brian because it shows his great sense of humor. When my book came out, he grabbed a tissue for this photo. I found it hilarious and so fitting. Thank you, Brian, for all the laughter over the years and for being brave enough to join this wacky family.
As part of her birthday and Mother's Day, I gave Allison our hospital bracelets from when she was born. One big one, one tiny one, one huge blessing. And since Angela had asked for my diamond wedding set for her own wedding, I gave Allison a wedding band that Chezzy had also given me. I'm so happy that both my daughters have the unbroken circles that had meant so much to me.

May God bless you both on your birthdays just as He blessed me with both of you.

Thursday, May 06, 2010

Honoring Moms & Grandmas

There are those delightful moments in life when you just feel like royalty. Whether perched on a lofty pedestal or lounging in an ivory castle, your perception of self-worth is soaring through orbit. You are all-important. You are on a higher plane. You are God's special gift. And all you had to do was walk through a door and enter the presence of a grandchild.That look of surprise, then the wide smile, two little arms opening as they rush into your own, and the excited squeal of "Memaw" fills the air, and your moment of being supreme has just taken place. I got to experience that today as I visited Sophia's pre-school classroom as they honored moms and grandmas this morning. She shyly acknowledged my presence in a roomful of other supreme beings, then smiled and rushed into my arms. How thrilled she was to have me in her element, and unexpectedly.
Allison and I listened to their sweet tributes and songs, and stole a quick visit to Baylee's room where I was exalted once more. I'm telling you, today I don't stink.
After spending time with the girls, we went to Jude's school to share lunch with him. He, too, didn't know I was coming. He stood in line to enter the cafeteria and spotted his mom. He was so happy to see her. Then, he noticed that I stood slightly behind her and the pedestal I was on elevated to the heavens. That's just how good they make you feel. And look at this cute boy with his missing front tooth! He's proud that he pulled it out himself.
Jude told me that when parents or grandparents visit for lunch that they sit at a special table, separate from the class. So his mom and I had him all to ourselves.
Proud Mama and Memaw were told by Jude's teacher that he was so polite and well mannered, and tells her jokes. She said she wished she had ten more like him in her class. I don't doubt it. Jude has a special knack of knowing how to make others feel special. He's a friend to everyone.

I thoroughly enjoyed my time with the kids today. I may be a little hard to live with for a few days, until I come down from the clouds where I've been. But I had my moments of glory and they will keep me until one of us walks in the door again.

Sunday, May 02, 2010

A Squirrel's Demise

There's nothing like sharing coffee with a friend on the patio and witnessing a brutal murder.

So it was on Friday, a beautiful afternoon and the beginning of a slumber party weekend, that Patty and I enjoyed coffee and conversation on the patio. We were giddy with the prospect of spending two days doing only what we wanted to do. We discussed the many possibilities - definitely eating out and not even thinking about cooking, maybe some shopping, and leaving plenty of time to just relax.

We decided on a restaurant for dinner and scouting out a book store for some good reading material. Our attention was diverted to the yard where George, a stray cat who has adopted us, was investigating something in the grass. Suddenly, we saw what looked like a squirrel do a quick flop in the grass and go still. For some reason I didn't question, Patty remained on the patio while I crossed the yard for a closer inspection.

I found either a sick or injured squirrel who wouldn't move a muscle as I approached. I could see that he was still breathing, but big horse flies had already claimed him. And sweet George seemed very sympathetic if a little playful. He would lightly tap the poor animal, or roll in the grass next to it. It was as if he sensed something wrong and would do no further damage. Finally, however, George lost interest or decided to let the squirrel die with dignity. Patty and I, too, quit watching the spot in the grass and continued our conversation.

Minutes passed, then Patty pointed to what she believed was another ill squirrel on the pool decking. Again, she remained seated while I investigated. I noticed the one in the grass was gone and assumed it had crawled to the decking. But unfortunately for the squirrel, it wasn't George who noticed him again, but Lucky, another stray that feeds in our back yard.

I will point out here that Robin names all the cats that eat at our house. There are five now. He has a quirky sense of humor that defies explanation, but I will say that there is a reason behind each name. Lucky will happily take the food and bedding we supply, but we have not gained his trust. We have not touched this cat. He won't allow it. Anyway, I once saw Lucky running down our driveway with a squirrel in his mouth, so I knew he was about to put this squirrel out of its misery.

Lucky did a stealthy approach as only a cat can do. He seemed surprised that his victim didn't jump up and run. He crept closer and closer. Then, he went in for the kill. Patty and I cringed at the sound the squirrel made, but it was shrill, brief, and over in seconds. Lucky carried his prey behind a tree at a far corner of the yard. It was over. And although it had been traumatic for us as well, I was relieved the suffering was over. The squirrel was obviously ill and in the throes of death. Lucky was his Dr. Kavorkian.

After a few shivers, I looked at Patty and asked, "Ready to go eat now?"

And so we did.