PeggyPoet

Happy Birthday, Angela!

2011-12-09T00:30:00.000-06:00

My youngest baby is having a birthday today! How I'd love to be celebrating in person with her! I'd try my hand at a vegan birthday cake. I'd scratch her back for an hour. I'd keep three precious grandchildren while she and hubby went out on the town.

We'd have funny face pancakes for breakfast - totally vegan, of course! Angela, Juliet and I would indulge in manicures and pedicures before heading to lunch at a vegan bistro.

Mostly, I'd just enjoy being with her and rejoicing in the happy occasion that was Angela only a few short years ago (notice I left out numbers). I so wanted that bundle of joy to be a girl and I was thrilled to welcome her. I wanted a little doll to dress up and her Daddy wanted a Daddy's Girl, and we both won big time! What a blessing she has always been.

Alas, I'm a good 14 hours away by car, but my heart is with you today on this special day. I'm so proud of the woman you are, your countless talents, and your unwavering faith in God. You're a loving wife, mother, daughter and sister, and I couldn't have hand-picked a better third child.

Happy birthday, Punkin, and know that I love you with all my heart. Yesterday, today, and all your tomorrows.

Happy Birthday, Sophia!

2011-11-07T08:50:00.002-06:00

Our precious Sophia is turning 5 today! What a joy she has been to our family. She has the sweetest smile and disposition, and I love to hear her talk! I dread the day when she learns the proper pronunciation for certain words, although I know it's necessary. When she tells her mother she loves me, she says, "I love ho". Funny and makes me laugh!

Since I'm having trouble uploading my pictures I chose two favorites of mine from her younger years. One captures that precious face and the other shows her prissy, girlie side. And both pictures remind me of her mother at that age. Sophia is a carbon copy, not only in looks, but in her carefree personality. I love ho!

Have a very special birthday, Sophia and know you are in my heart forever. Happy birthday!

Happy Birthday, Baylee!

2011-08-27T00:30:00.001-05:00

Our Baylee girl is a big 7-year-old today! Somehow, when we weren't looking, she transformed from the cute baby above to a lovely girl of seven. And what a joy she has been!

Papa and I surprised Baylee at school today to take her birthday shopping and to dinner. She squealed with delight when she saw us, which always makes our heads grow a little bigger. Before we left we snapped a picture of our elite little group, The Middle Child. We understand each other.
Baylee's smile shows off the missing tooth she lost this week at school during lunch. She's now sporting two windows in that cute smile of hers. And her sweet personality and great sense of humor kept Papa and I entertained all afternoon. We had so much fun with her.

Baylee has a tremendous love for animals - live or stuffed. She chose a variety of animals when we shopped and was anxious to get home and show them to Jude and Sophia. I teased her that we should go to the pet store next door and pick out a puppy and surprise her parents. Of course, I knew better. They will let me slip some sugar to the kids once in awhile, but a puppy would get me in trouble for sure. Baylee has a black rabbit that is so docile and sweet, and she's a very loving and attentive "mama" to him. Taco Meat is lucky to belong to her.

Enjoy your birthday, sweet girl. We always have so much fun with you and are so proud of the smart, beautiful, and sweet girl you have always been. Happy birthday with all our love.

Happy Birthday, Callan!

2011-08-23T00:30:00.000-05:00

My youngest grandchild, grandson Callan, is 4 today. Few things are sweeter than this blue-eyed blond cutie! This boy has personality!

It's so sweet how he compliments his Mommy daily by telling her she is pretty and soft. Sometimes we like soft, unless flabby legs or arms are involved. Fortunately, his Mommy is young enough to appreciate soft. He makes her feel like a million bucks.

This little fellow does a good job keeping up with his older siblings, yet is very anxious to get older. I remember wanting to grow up, too, but it comes too soon and the years pass quickly. Already I'm wondering how Callan got to be four years old this soon. He's so sweet and so smart.
Happy birthday, Callan, and please hang on to that precious baby face for awhile longer. Big hugs for your birthday and always all my love.

Happy Birthday, Thomas!

2011-08-09T00:30:00.000-05:00

My oldest grandson is a handsome 10-year-old today. Thomas will spend the day with his cousin Jude and his parents at Legoland. These two boys love their Legos. He'll enjoy a family celebration tonight. I've already baked the chocolate chip cookies he requested.

These pictures are from our shopping trip and dinner in honor of Thomas's birthday. We had so much fun together. I was touched by the way Thomas read the words I wrote in his card and commented on them later to me. He'd paid attention! And he was so sweet and complimentary all evening. I adored all the attention I was getting from such a handsome young man.

Thomas chose three separate sets of Legos and I know he stayed busy the rest of the weekend just putting them all together. He has a knack for it, just like his Dad did. When the instructions are put aside and the imagination goes wild, I think it's constructive for the mind to come up with unique designs. Thomas has a natural talent in art and sculpture, and I'm always awed by his

creations.

How many women get to date such a handsome, younger man? I'm blessed.

Happy birthday, Thomas, and enjoy this special day of yours. I'm thankful I got to share in it with you and I enjoyed every minute of it.

I love you and I'm so proud of the young man you are. You have such an enormous heart.

Happy Birthday, Donna!

2011-07-18T12:20:00.004-05:00

I don't mean to brag, but I have the best sister that anyone could be blessed with. She's charming, she's beautiful inside and out, she has a sense of humor that can't be beat, and she's always there for her family. She spoils me with surprise gifts and is there when I need her, which is 24/7.

I've always loved this picture because it captures the Donna I see all the time - fun-loving, full of laughter and one of the prettiest smiles I've ever seen. If Donna is around, there will be laughter.

Sissy, I'm so thankful that God blessed me with such a special sister. I couldn't have hand-picked a better one. Enjoy your birthday and remember that you are just as beautiful as you've always been. I love you to the moon and back.

Happy Birthday, Juliet!

2011-07-11T00:30:00.000-05:00

My beautiful granddaughter, Juliet, is 6 today! If there was ever anyone who was so content in their own feminine skin, it's Juliet. She is all girl and all about anything having to do with a girl. If it's pink, frilly, soft, glittery, and girlie, bring it on. Chasity/Chaz, there will be no gender change in this girl's future!

It's obvious that Juliet gets all her femininity from her beautiful mom. But then, all the ladies in the family know how to work it. I have enough daughters, granddaughters, a sister and a mother to be able to speak with a decent amount of wisdom on the subject.

She still looks adorable even with a goofy smile on a wooden stick.

This girl is stylin'. And she loves anything having to do with a princess. She has the gowns and tiaras and turns herself into a pretty impressive girl of royalty.

The three cousins had a fun day of shopping and lunch with Memaw who likes the girl stuff too.

My four youngest girls sporting matching outfits, compliments of Aunt Dee.

Have a wonderful birthday, Juliet. I'm proud of you for your sweet nature and artistic talent. You're my special girl and I love you so much.

Happy Birthday, Camryn!

2011-07-08T00:30:00.001-05:00

My beautiful granddaughter, Camryn, is turning 18 today! We celebrated by going to one of her favorite Mexican food restaurants and splurging on brisket enchiladas and tacos. I usually make ice cream for the grandchildren, but they know they can change it up if the taste buds are ready for something different. Camryn chose chocolate chip cookies this time. I was more than happy to oblige.

I'm proud of Camryn for many reasons. She's always had a big heart and it shows through so perfectly with little Riley, whom she adores. And watching her graduate from high school just made my heart swell. That's a big accomplishment after 12 sometimes hard and boring years of study. Pomp and Circumstance tugs at the heartstrings anyway, but especially when your own granddaughter is walking down the aisle.

Camryn is also a special sister to Candice and Thomas. She and Candice have always been best friends and Camryn dotes on her younger brother. She's so much fun to be with and has such a great sense of humor. She's a hard worker, a loving mom, and one of my prides and joys.

Enjoy your birthday, Camryn. I hope the year ahead is just as special as you are to me. I love you, Girlfriend!

Happy Birthday, Ashton!

2011-06-21T08:18:00.004-05:00

My fifth grandchild, Ashton is celebrating his 8th birthday today. His mom has many happy things planned for his special day. And Ashton has been counting the days.

I love this handsome boy for many reasons. He enjoys playing games with me when we're together. I suggest card or dice games, and Ashton says "let's play algebra or fractions." I'm fascinated that he loves to learn, but sometimes he picks the wrong person to play math games with! He's always ready to explore and experience new things. He's lovable and sweet and I adore those open arms when he sees me. He makes me feel like royalty.

Ashton has interests in sports and music, and he can give you a weather report from anywhere in the world. We may have a future meteorologist in our midst.

Did I mention that he's handsome? Happy birthday, my sweet Ashton. You have made my life richer and I love you so much.

Where's the Respect?

2011-05-31T12:19:00.002-05:00

A local cemetery is in the news. Again. The most recent negative attention was this Memorial Day where visitors couldn't find headstones for the overgrowth of grass and weeds. Apparently perpetual care doesn't always mean that the grounds will be kept free of debris and weeds growing out of control. I mean, who really cares? The "residents" there aren't concerned with landscaping. So what does it matter?

This latest focus on the cemetery follows a long line of complaints against its owner. He's been in the news before. Lots of times. There were suspicions that graves were being exhumed at night and piggybacked in other graves, thus freeing up more plots to sell. Business is business, right? When the last plot is sold it's time to open up more opportunities. Then, last year a woman reported finding a skull in a heap of dirt. She photographed it and authorities were notified, but the skull was gone when the media and the owner showed up. Convenient.

I have my own personal experience with the cemetery, one that left me with a dirty feeling and in a rage over the lack of respect afforded to those who have passed away. Unaware of the bad publicity the cemetery had suffered, we buried my mother-in-law there. When I bought her headstone I had to contact the owner, pay a fee, and get permission to have the stone placed on her grave. I was instructed to go to a local pawn shop to handle this cemetery business. I walked in to the stench of animals, particularly a big gorilla in a cage - among other creatures and their waste. I was lead to a tiny back room where cemetery business was handled. I was shocked. It was not the environment I expected to see when conducting such a somber and respectful transaction. Fortunately, I'd heard the rumors and bad news when my husband died, and he is buried elsewhere.

I don't have a problem with a man owning both a pawn shop and a cemetery. I do have a problem with the business being conducted at one central location, complete with exotic animals and their stench. Show some respect, dude. And keep people where they are placed. It's supposed to be a "final" resting place, not a stopover. No grave should be disturbed except for legal reasons. And never, never, should a body part be above the ground in a pile of dirt.

And finally, keep it mowed. This might be a moneymaker for you, dude, but it's a sacred place for those of us who have loved ones buried there. Where's the respect?

Happy 40th Birthday, Randee Allison!

2011-05-10T00:30:00.000-05:00

Who wouldn't mind being 40 when 40 looks this good? My oldest beautiful daughter is hitting this milestone today. As her mother, it seems impossible that I've been enjoying her so much for so long. It feels like only yesterday that I got the girl I wanted and squealed with delight. She's been a blessing ever since.

Daughter Angela came in for this special event, and a group of us "girls" met for lunch yesterday to celebrate. We had girls of all ages and had a wonderful time.

This is my daughter-in-law Leiann, my granddaughter Candice, and my great-granddaughter Riley. Riley is at the perfect age - 2 1/2 months - to introduce her to the world of girls night out, or day out, or week out. It's all good.

We were so happy that Cheryl moved back to Texas in time to join us. I've been so excited as I anticipated this day that I feel like it's my birthday. I could handle turning 40 again. It seemed so old then, but looks very young to me now.

My sweet granddaughters Sophia, Baylee and Juliet were some of the younger ones in our group. They have the girl thing down pat.

Allison with friends Tressa and Jennifer. We appreciate them for celebrating with us.

Birthday gifts for the birthday girl. Yeah, birthdays aren't all bad.

We all enjoyed the unique gift Angela presented to her sister. There were 40 notes in a bag with a favorite memory written on each note and a roll of bills in each one was a sweet surprise. Some memories were funny, others were tear-jerkers. Allison's idea of celebrating her 40th is to go with her family to Disney World. The trip is being planned and some of us contributed to the fund instead of a big party bash or spa day. But a girl's got to eat, so another celebration is in the works for dinner tonight. Also, since she shares a birthday with husband Brian, it's definitely a family affair.

We're never too young to party. Riley enjoyed her day with the girls even though she dozed through most of it. What a sweet girl!

Is this precious or what??? This sweet smile was in response to her Aunt Dee's loving attention.

There's nothing like friends and family, and having something to celebrate. How thankful I am for this lovely woman, my daughter, and the joy she has always brought into my life.

Happy birthday Allison and Brian and God's blessings for many more. You are the light of my life and truly gorgeous at 40! I love you both!

Grandchildren Rich

2011-04-12T16:00:00.005-05:00

Our weekend was grandchildren rich! Robin's twins spent the weekend with us and Allison brought her three over to play with them. Having five of the grandchildren here is indeed rich. Jordan and Sophia were artistic with the sidewalk chalk. That's always a hit and it decorates my walkways until the sprinklers come on or it rains.

Jordan, Baylee, and Sophia became quick friends and we're anxious to have them all together again soon.

Papa with our kids. Actually, he's one of them, only bigger.

Beautiful and handsome group! I was proud of Jude for not thinking his 9 years were just too old to play with 5-year-old CJ. He walked in and immediately started a game with him on the ipad.

After decorating Easter cupcakes, the girls enjoyed a tea party. Here's Princess Jordan.

CJ didn't mind decorating his own cupcakes, but wanted no part of the tea party. I totally understand.

Princess Sophia enjoying her tea and cupcake.

Princess Baylee is adding some finishing touches to her yummy cupcake. It always amazes me how much these girls enjoy pouring from the tiny teapot. They love tea parties and it's fun and easy entertainment. Just pull out the tea set, hats, and tiaras, and enjoy. What a rich weekend!

Padded Bikini Tops for Young Girls?

2011-03-27T00:30:00.000-05:00

A trendy store for the younger crowd has ruffled some feathers lately. It seems they are now offering padded bikini tops for girls 8 - 14 years. My opinion on this is a little mixed. For one thing, a girl of 14 is a totally different animal than one of 8. They can't be grouped together like that. First, let's look at the 8-year-old girls.

Do we really want to rush the beast known as Puberty? I'd want my 8-year-old to look like one. Most parents feel the same way and this little clothing item will be another area they will have to go to battle with. Like they need another one. I know little girls are in a hurry to grow up, but wearing a padded top when there is obviously nothing there to begin with is pushing it a bit and would probably look ridiculous. They will spend the bigger portion of their lives wearing some type of bra and the day will come soon enough. I understand the word profit, but stores need to let children be children.

As for the 14-year-olds, I have no objection to a little padding. When jumping into cool water with some high beam action going on, I'd like to know there is something else between my daughter and the Spandex. And if a little padding makes them feel less self-conscious at that age, bring it on. Like I said, it's a good covering.

I guess my first reaction to this news was how glad I am that my own children are grown. But I do have granddaughters and I know their mothers will not adhere to a tacky fashion statement that is not age-appropriate. Let the girls play with their Barbie dolls instead of trying to turn them into one.

Happy 20th Birthday, Candice!

2011-03-26T00:30:00.000-05:00

Yes, I have a grandchild who is 20 and I'm proud of it! Our beautiful Candice is celebrating her birthday today, definitely a milestone one. Leaving her teens behind, she is well on her way to establishing a life for herself. She's close to finishing junior college and has been accepted into a local university. And due to her high academic standing, they are offering scholarships. Go, Candice!

This busy young lady is not only working to put herself through school and keeping those marks high, she is also a brand new aunt. Candice is quite the doting aunt and loves her little niece so much, as do the rest of us. She's busily carving a permanent place in little Riley's heart. She'll do well since she had three excellent examples with her own aunts.

Have a splendid birthday, Candy Girl, and always know how proud I am of you and your achievements. You have what it takes to be whatever you want to be. I love you, Birthday Girl!

Happy Birthday, Jude!

2011-03-15T00:30:00.000-05:00

My handsome grandson, Jude, is 9 years old today! He's getting so big, but he's just as enjoyable today as that sweet toddler with the cute bowl-cut blond hair. He captured my heart from day one.

Jude knows how to make me feel special and always has. When he was younger and saw me walking into church, he would squeal with delight. Those moments of supreme importance made me feel better than royalty. And today, he has that same knack for putting those he loves on a lofty pedestal. He gets so excited as he anticipates his birthday outing with Robin and me. He knows he will get a gift from us anyway, but the fact that his excitement includes the time being spent with us just makes me love him more. Such a special young man.

We always start with lunch at a location of his choice. He indulged in a chocolate milkshake afterwards because, hey, it's his birthday.

Papa Robin helped Jude assemble a cardboard car while waiting for lunch.

Jude picked out three sets of Legos, a hard decision considering the shelves loaded with all kinds of Lego fun. He's a master at Legos and had them completed before bedtime. He kept telling us it was the best day of his life. He knows just the right words to say that make others feel loved in his presence. Just one of the many things I love about our Jude. Have a happy birthday and know that Memaw will love you forever.

Happy Birthday, Ron!

2011-02-28T00:30:00.000-06:00

What better gift than to become a grandpa just three days before your birthday? And what a doting, loving one he is! Once this little girl knows the tricks of the trade, she will have grandpa securely wrapped around her little finger.

Ron, I'm happy this is an exciting birthday for you with the newest member of your family. You have every reason to be proud, to celebrate, and to know you are special to all of us. I appreciate what a loving son you have always been and your unconditional love, sense of humor, and loyalty mean so much to me. I thank God He has blessed me with you. Have a wonderful birthday and shave that beard so you can kiss all over your sweet granddaughter. I love you so much!

Happy 60th Birthday, Cheryl!

2011-02-22T00:30:00.001-06:00

My dearest friend is finally entering her 60s so I won't feel so all alone. I'm 13 months to the day older than her and I've been anxiously awaiting this day. And since I've been there, done that, I can tell her from experience that being 60 sucks. But she knows I'm kidding and that we always have fun, regardless of our ages.

Cheryl is one I enjoy being crazy with, like being goofy in our camo pajamas and caps. It doesn't take much to pull laughter out of us. That's the beauty of friendship. We just need to be together and the fun begins. It becomes open season for any subject and it's all peppered with laughter. We don't have to go or do anything. The fun is built in.

I'll forever be in awe of how two grieving widows connected and became the support, understanding, and comfort they both needed. A solid friendship evolved from that need and will last throughout eternity. I can't even fathom not having Cheryl in my life. I searched for the perfect 60th birthday gift and decided on a friendship necklace. The pendant says, "A friend knows the song in your heart and can sing it back to you when you've forgotten the words." That, to me, describes our friendship in a nutshell.

So, happy birthday to my wacky friend in the green alien sunglasses who is not afraid to do anything for a laugh. You may be 60 and think that is old, but I need you as much today as I did that first night in a grief seminar. I thank God for blessing my life with such a strong friendship. Sixty is beautiful on you, BB, and I suspect any age will be. Have a happy birthday, with love and gratitude.

February Birthday Divas

2011-02-20T14:12:00.003-06:00

The Texas Divas met to celebrate the February birthdays and indulge in a little Mexican food. That's a great combination.

The Birthday Divas for this month are Deborah, Patty and Cathy. Our waitress had them stand while singing to them. They were good sports. But then, we're all crazy!

Again, Paula made a delicious treat for the birthday girls. This time she plied us with pecan pie caramel bars which were to die for. As if that wasn't enough, our waitress brought out three brownie sundaes for the ones having birthdays. We left with our sweet tooth satisfied.

Darlene was our Diva-in-charge for the month and we thank her for making the reservations and setting us up for a great time. She also presented the birthday girls with mirror compacts with DIVA appropriately lettered on the top in rhinestones. Sweet.

Thank God for sisters! We are so blessed (at least I am, not sure about Donna).

Happy birthday to Patty, Deborah and Cathy! The next birthday will be for the baby in the group who hits a real milestone. I'll play it up big!

Happy Birthday to Me

2011-01-22T21:05:00.004-06:00

Birthdays have never depressed me. Even though the numbers are increasing, I'm always thankful that I've been given another year of life. And besides, it's not like I'm the only one getting older. I joked this morning with daughter Angela that I was turning 39, and told her that probably sounds old to her since she hasn't reached that age yet. She agreed that 39 sounds old. To me, the years behind me suddenly seem younger than they used to.

The Texas Divas met for breakfast at the Gaylord Texan to honor the birthday girls, Claudia and me. The park-like setting was perfect for our celebration.

We were happy to finally meet Paula's beautiful daughter, Jennifer, who just so happens is celebrating her birthday today, too. I think she'd make a good Texas Diva. Bravo to Paula who made another delicious birthday dessert. This time, we feasted on peach cobbler. This girl can bake. Seriously. Thank you, Paula!

Having special time with family and friends is not a shabby way to spend a birthday. I love these ladies and always enjoy our monthly meals and conversation and laughter.

Mother and daughter - another excellent relationship and reason to celebrate. If my other two children could have been there it would be a perfect day.

My friend and traveling buddy, Patty, as I tried to capture some of the beauty of the area.

This picture is blurred and I started to delete it, but decided you all might like to know how I see you without my granny glasses on.

I ended the lovely day with Robin and dinner out. I feel so blessed to have all of you in my life.

A Great Blog Post

2011-01-12T14:05:00.002-06:00

No, not here, folks. I haven't had much of interest to write about. But I would like to suggest Angela's blog at www.tphblog.com, where she is doing a series on my parents, their home, and their loving hospitality. Enjoy!

And while you are there, be sure to check out the archives for tips on home decorating and fashion. She carries her love for art in all directions. You can also tour her mountain cottage which will be featured in a fall issue of Cottages & Bungalows.

Yes, I'm proud. Happy reading.

Happy Birthday, Robin

2010-12-16T00:30:00.000-06:00

No candles on the birthday cake. I couldn't get permission from the local fire department. But it's just as well since Robin might not have enough breath to blow them out.

I asked the birthday boy where he wanted to eat on his special night. He said the place that has the waffle bowls full of ice cream. I asked, "Dairy Queen?" He said that was the one. I told him I know it's been a rough year with the economy, but I can handle the usual steak and seafood he chooses for his birthday dinner. Maybe I'll treat him to dessert at Dairy Queen.

Happy birthday, Robin, and thank you for being a wonderful husband who settled for a coconut cake this year instead of the time-consuming German chocolate. I love you to pieces.

Happy Birthday, Angela

2010-12-09T00:01:00.001-06:00

My beautiful baby girl is having a birthday today. If we were in the same place today, I'd scratch her back, bake her favorite cake, and babysit her three precious children while she indulged in a nap or a night out. I'm sure she will happily take me up on this at a later date.

Angela is a devoted daughter, wife, and mother whose artistic abilities can transform junk into treasure. I had an early glimpse of this talent when she drew a girl with long eyelashes on the bathroom wallpaper. It wasn't long before these creations were on canvas, and now can be seen on everything she touches. I've always been amazed at those who can visualize something and make it become real. In my mind's eye, I can see a dog, or a house, or a flower, but wouldn't know how to put that image on a surface. I'm thankful that God was selective with talents and didn't give us all the same one. That Angela's eye for art is unique is one of the things that make it so appealing to me.

Angela has a fun sense of humor that I always enjoy. I especially love it when all three of my kids are together and laughing over antics from the past. She's also a dedicated teacher to these two kids and I wouldn't doubt that the younger one will learn under her as well. He already sits in on the Bible class and can recite the books of the Bible.

Mainly, I love Angela because she's a loving daughter and gives me many reasons for loving her back. Happy birthday, Punkin. You are always, always in my heart.

Bandera with Angela

2010-11-24T13:47:00.008-06:00

All my trips to Bandera have been unforgettable. I've always been there to share lazy days with friends and this is the first time I went without them. But it was still wonderful since I got to spend a few days with baby girl, Angela, and three of my sweet grandchildren. No pajama days on this trip. We were on the go!

We spent one morning on the condo's playground and played a little soccer. I was rusty, but managed to get a few good kicks in. Ashton and Juliet were awesome!

Little man, Callan, is my youngest grandchild and just as handsome as the rest of them.

We had fun playing games inside the condo too. Ashton took over the score pad when he saw that I added something incorrectly. He was faster than I was too.

After the playground, we headed to Natural Bridge Caverns. Ashton had studied about cave formations and was excited to see them. We ventured down 180 feet on steep inclines, then back up 180 feet. I thought I'd be sore the next day, but I wasn't. When I told Robin about our day he asked if I remembered that I'd had a heart attack. I told him I was supposed to exercise and he said, "not all in one day." Point taken.

These next two pictures show how natural our Juliet is at posing. She wants to be an artist who designs clothes, and I think she could add model to her future.

I see the same love and knack for art in Juliet that I saw in Angela. She draws beautifully. I asked if she would be taking lessons from an art teacher like her mom did, and Juliet reminded me that her mom is capable of teaching her art. Why didn't I think of that?

Isn't he handsome? He favors his grandpa whom I loved with all my heart.

Memaw is in good company!

We visited a toy store in Austin and I had to get a picture of Juliet being funny.

Our tour of the state capitol in Austin was interesting and educational for all of us.

A view of the dome from inside the capitol building. We climbed a lot of stairs!

Since Angela lives in another state it had been awhile since we had had some quality time together. These few days with her and the children were definitely highlights in my life. They are all very precious to me and I can't wait to see them again soon.

Baylee's Thanksgiving Program

2010-11-24T13:31:00.005-06:00

We all enjoyed Baylee's first official school program as a kindergarten student. She's a natural-born performer and there's nothing shy about this girl! This group of Pilgrims and Indians entertained us with the Turkey Tango and other delightful songs.

Baylee was a very pretty Pilgrim!

Jude and Sophia enjoyed the program too. Sweet Jude told me he was so excited to see Baylee perform. Such a sweet brother.

My talented daughter, Allison, made these cute turkey cookies for Baylee's class. A lot of time was involved and I don't even want to guess the calorie content.

Beautiful Allison with husband Brian and little Sophia.

I got to spend a little private time with Sophia. She is such a little doll with the sweetest smile. It was a great morning and I know it meant a lot to Baylee that we were there for her big moment. Good job, Baylee Girl!

Happy Birthday, Sophia!

2010-11-07T12:34:00.000-06:00

Our sweet Sophia girl is 4 today! She has been an absolute blessing and has captured every heart in our family. She's so affectionate and has the cutest talk. She's also number 8 in my Cloud 9 of grandchildren.

We had so much fun shopping for her birthday gifts. Sophia had a pretty good idea what she wanted and didn't waste much time picking them out. Her excited giggles warmed my heart!

Of course she had to have a cuddly leopard since we couldn't find the lion Pillow Pet she wanted.

Sophia chose chicken sandwiches for her birthday lunch outing. When finished eating, she played awhile on the playground.

She was happy that Papa came along for the fun. He seldom passes up a chance to enter a toy store. Sophia presented him with a dog she had colored for him. It's in every color so she called it a rainbow dog. It's quite artistic!

Happy birthday, Sophia, and enjoy this 4th year to the hilt! You are so precious and Memaw loves you very, very much!

October Divas

2010-10-22T11:03:00.002-05:00

October Divas, what a pitiful sight!
Only Patty and Peggy showed up that night.

Allison couldn't get a babysitter,
But she'll be back, she's no quitter.

Donna preferred her horses and cows
to dining with her Diva sows.

A grandson's play won with Trish,
Who missed out on a nachos dish.

Cathy chose an OU game,
That excuse was rather lame.

Deb picked up her Corvette,
Her absence we won't soon forget.

Shingles really plagued Darlene,
We could almost hear her scream.

Jan had traveled out of state
And missed her enchilada plate.

Paula had a bout with chills,
She stayed home to take her pills.

We don't know what's up with Jeanne,
No Spanish rice or refried beanie.

If Texas Divas are hard core,
Patty and Peggy made the score.

What Happens in Bandera......

2010-10-01T17:46:00.006-05:00

Doesn't actually stay in Bandera. It follows us home on our hips! But what's one week of junk food and lazy pajama days? The fun was worth every delightful calorie!

These happy faces are about to do the annual squeal at the corner of my street. It's become a tradition that we look forward to. It also reveals our excitement about the trip ahead.

You can't drive six hours to Bandera without stopping for a little food. We started out well, treating ourselves to soup and salad. It went downhill from there.

We finally did our hair and applied makeup and ventured out of the condo. We went to browse the many shops in Fredericksburg. The drive there was so scenic through the Hill Country.

With a condo this pretty there is no need to leave. It rained every day we were there and we were content. It's perfect for pajama days.

Since it was warmer this trip, we didn't use the fireplace. Except for posing for pictures, that is.

Cheryl and my daughters treated me to a birthday trip to Fredericksburg ten years ago and we all had our pictures made in this very shop with goofy glasses on. How appropriate to do it again. We three are stylin'.

We strolled down Memory Lane when we visited this 5 & Dime store. Each aisle and cabinet fixtures had displays like the ones from our past. It made me want to dab a little Evening in Paris on my wrists.

This calico cat spent the week near our balcony where we sloppy ladies sometimes, accidentally, dropped delicious chunks of chicken or burgers. It literally broke my heart to check out, knowing she would be waiting for a Cheeto to somehow come flying over the railing.

The craziness began with our matching pink and green camo jammies with a matching cap. Patty's sister-in-law sewed the letters spelling Bandera down one leg. The camo seemed fitting since deer are constantly grazing around the condo. Then, Cheryl surprised us with the hats. Oh, did we laugh when we were decked out!

I realize we don't look like big bad hunters in this garb. I realize, too, that hats just might not be the right fit on me.

Mike, the assistant manager, was gracious enough to take our group picture without busting a gut. I asked him if we looked weird. "No, not weird. It's just that, uh, we, uh, don't see things like this much." Really?

Mike was such a good sport that we decided to push him to the limit. I know he felt honored to have three seniors flocked around him. He probably would have preferred college seniors.

Eating again. Actually, we stayed in the condo more than we ate out. Easier that way - no makeup, getting dressed, or messing with hair.

I made a simple dinner for us our last night there and encountered a scorpion on the kitchen floor. I ran to the balcony to alert Cheryl and Patty of my find. We finally decided on a weapon to use and it was handed to me! Why me? I smashed the awful thing and felt like a hero.

The restaurant overlooked this river with the strange looking trees and swampy looking water. But the total effect was pretty.

This charming lady dressed in her vintage attire waited on us at an antique store. She just looked so at home in that setting that I had to get a picture. Afterwards, we holed up in the condo with Spades, Yahtzee, and a DVD and enjoyed our last full day in Bandera. We never laughed so much. We never got tired of the company or the quiet surroundings. We never felt so blessed.

Blog on Hold

2010-10-01T17:44:00.001-05:00

I seem to have an infection which prohibits me from adding pics. Will be back when it's corrected. I'm tired of fighting with it.

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2010-09-29T20:53:00.002-05:00

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Just the Girls

2010-09-07T12:25:00.002-05:00

What could be more fun than a girls' day out? I thoroughly enjoyed lunch and shopping with my mother and sister. Afterwards, we sat around the kitchen table with a platter of Mother's homemade oatmeal cookies. Doesn't get much better than that! Oh yeah, it does. I swiped 10 loaves of whole wheat bread from her freezer!

A beautiful day with two of my favorite beautiful women!

It's Still About Baylee

2010-08-27T23:05:00.004-05:00

This birthday cake thrilled Baylee since she has a black rabbit that she loves very much. Taco Meat was a hit with the kids, each wanting a turn holding him. Don't ask me where that sweet rabbit got a name like Taco Meat. He looks more like a black fur ball than tortilla fixins'.

Another huge hit was the water slide that was rented for the back yard. The kids had a ball! No messing with party games when you have an entertainment center set up for the kids.

The birthday girl posed for a fun shot. She looks happy, doesn't she? Six must agree with her.

Sophia got her money's worth out of the slide. According to her Mom, she must have gone down it 100 times even after I left the party. What is funny is that she didn't think she'd want to participate because it looked scary. It didn't take but one splash and she was hooked.

A wet Baylee getting ready to blow out her candles. The cake was both chocolate and vanilla. We feasted on pizza, salad, and dips for lunch, then dug into the cake and ice cream.

Baylee made a haul on the gifts. I sat in the floor with her after everyone left and helped open all those hard packages that Daddys usually struggle with. I was armed with scissors and Memaw muscle, which Baylee and Sophia thought was funny.

Kids love to crowd around and watch the gifts being opened. I couldn't resist this shot of Sophia's cute behind. I could just eat her up.

A final shot of Sophia in her yummy watermelon bikini. I've never been a fan of melons, but this one is tempting.

A second party was held in the afternoon after Jude and some of the neighbor kids got out of school. Baylee was then presented with a pink bicycle from her parents, brother and sister. Poor Jude had to leave the party early as he came down with the virus bug that had plagued his Mom and sisters earlier in the week. I hope he feels better soon.

We wrapped up a perfect birthday for a perfect little Baylee!

Happy Birthday, Baylee!

2010-08-27T00:30:00.000-05:00

Our pretty Baylee Girl is 6 years old today! Robin and I surprised her at school today and swept her away for lunch and some good birthday shopping at the toy store. You can see from the picture where we ended up for lunch. To her credit, Baylee usually has better taste than this, but choices were few near the store. We made up for it later with ice cream!

This birthday is extra special because Baylee started kindergarten last week. She loves school and getting into the learning mode. When I arrived with my umbrella today she said, "We studied the letter "u" today, like in umbrella." She catches on quickly.

Baylee has always had a big heart for animals so her favorite place to browse is on the stuffed animal aisle. She already has a ton of them at home, but what's a few more when your heart is in it this much? She is "mama" to a real rabbit that adores her. He will sit in her lap while she watches TV and eat fruit from her hands. This sensitive girl has never met an animal she didn't like. I bet she'll be a vegetarian when she grows up. Oh yeah, she's a brunette.

I have her homemade strawberry ice cream made and I was told that her cake will be one she will love. Pictures will be forthcoming. Can't ruin all the birthday surprises.

Have a very happy birthday, Baylee. You made us feel so special today by the excitement on your sweet face when you saw us at your school. You were so much fun and always a joy to be with. I love you, sweet girl!

Happy Birthday, Callan!

2010-08-23T00:30:00.001-05:00

My youngest grandchild, Callan, is a big three-year-old today! He's such a sweet boy and certainly not bad on the eyes either. That curly blond hair and those blue eyes have a tendency to melt my heart. This little guy speaks two languages so don't let his young age fool you. He has an edge on some of us, namely his Memaw.

I love this baby picture of Callan with his Dad that appeared on the cover of a parenting magazine in honor of Father's Day. So, I'm posting it again for Callan's special day.

Angela told me that they reminded Callan that the terrible twos are about to end and there should be no more whining and carrying on. Personally, I don't think he's ever been prone to that type of behaviour and I'm convinced that age three will find him as delightful as ever.

Happy birthday, sweet boy! Memaw loves you so much!

In Loving Memory of Sharon

2010-08-20T20:15:00.003-05:00

My heart is so heavy right now as I honor my dear friend, Sharon, who passed away today after battling cancer for the second time. I can't find the words to describe what she meant to me. Our friendship was brief - we met for the first time over two years ago - but the impression she made on my life is ever-lasting. Her precious daughter, Rachael, and my precious daughter, Angela, have been good friends for many years, so I was excited to finally meet Sharon. A few days after that first meeting she called to tell me she saw something so special in my eyes, something so sincere, and wanted to get to know me better. To be honest, I was stunned that she could look at me and find something so worthwhile, something worth knowing. I eagerly agreed to meet her for lunch and a friendship developed immediately.

Just as Sharon said she could see someone in me that she wanted to know better, she has shown me the face of Jesus when I look at her. Her faith was so strong, so evident, that she absolutely glowed. She was one of the purest and sweetest women I have ever met. She lived her Christian life to the fullest and shared that joy with those around her. I've attended her Bible studies and gained so much inspiration from her words and how she delivered them. I was in awe of the time she loved spending with the Bible and it showed in her very countenance. Sharon was a beautiful person. She had the most delightful smile, and freckles, and laughter, and peace, that I was drawn to her again and again. I will miss everything about this special friend.

This picture was taken a year ago, the last time I saw Sharon before she moved out of state. I felt honored to be a part of the beautiful mother/daughter bond that was Sharon and Rachael.

I took Sharon to meet my parents and my mother readily adopted her and Sharon was happy to call her Mom. My mother's heart is heavy tonight also.

Both Sharon and my Dad have fallen asleep in Jesus and I look forward to the day when we are reunited with them. When my Dad was struck with cancer, Sharon listened to me cry many times and she offered me such comfort and peace and hope. I will forever be grateful for those gentle, caring words.

Sharon, my cherished friend, thank you for the joy you added to my life by simply being the wonderful person you are. We will meet again, friend, in a place where cancer can't exist. Sleep peacefully and I will see you in the morning. What a glorious day that will be.

Celebrating Friendship

2010-08-19T11:14:00.005-05:00

A miracle happened 17 years ago today when I walked into a grief recovery seminar and met Cheryl. An incredible friendship took root and has blossomed beyond our wildest dreams. We were there for each other during the worst time of our lives and have continued being a rock for each other, sharing all the good and the bad. I can't imagine my life without Cheryl.

This is always my favorite picture of Cheryl because she's arriving at the airport to spend a glorious week with me in the Texas Hill Country. The laughter begins at this moment.

A friend is someone who accepts you as you are, expecting nothing more. A friend is safe with your secrets. A friend listens to your hurts and comforts you, and rejoices in the good that happens in your life. A friend is Cheryl.

Thank you, Lord, for showing us what a genuine friendship is all about, and for bringing these two heart-broken women together and putting a smile on our faces. To learn more about this special friendship, please click on the label "Our Story" to the right of this blog.

August Divas - Celebrating Jan!

2010-08-16T22:05:00.003-05:00

Busy, busy weekend with family and equally busy Monday back at work, but highlights of our August Diva outing are now posted.

We celebrated Jan's birthday, complete with a special surprise. Her daughter, Shelley, drove a great distance to spend this time with her mother and our group. It was wonderful having her there and I know her mother was thrilled and excited. We just might have to make Shelley a real Texas Diva! She is welcome any time! The proud mother and birthday girl looks happy in this picture with Shelley, as does cousin Allison.

Our dear Paula P. always brings a homemade goodie to share with us when it's a birthday month. This time it was a delicious soapapilla cheese cake that had us all salivating. She is a master - or is it mistress - baker. And while the rest of us might forget about a birthday dessert, faithful Paula always saves the day. Thank you!

We missed Darlene who was on vacation and unable to attend her friend's birthday celebration. Also missing this time were Deb, Paula F. and Jeanne. We hope the next outing will include everyone.

Happy birthday, Jan, and we enjoyed having Shelley there to celebrate with us. No more birthdays for a few months, but the group will still be having fun. See you all next time!

My Date with Thomas

2010-08-10T21:27:00.005-05:00

I finally uploaded my pictures from my date with Thomas the birthday boy!

Here's the handsome young man before his mane was sheared.

Here's the handsome young man with a fresh haircut. What a cutie!

Thomas took this picture of me at lunch and considering the subject matter, he did a fine job.

Fortifying ourselves with lunch before we invade Toys R Us with 9-year-old energy.

Arriving home with the stash. He wanted a picture with each item we bought, so check it out!

It was such a fun date with such a young and strikingly handsome dude!

Happy Birthday, Thomas

2010-08-09T09:56:00.004-05:00

My oldest grandson is 9 today! And what a sweet and handsome boy he is. I took loads of pictures of our outing together but haven't been able to load them due to all my computer problems. But this picture from a past birthday will have to do and it's adorable. I will post our birthday fun when I can.

Our first stop on our birthday date was to get Thomas a haircut. He was even excited about it. As we walked into the salon my stylist said, "what a handsome grandson!". To our amazement and my delight, Thomas went to her, patted her on the back and said, "thanks. You're a pretty grandma." How sweet is that? This boy never meets a stranger.

Next was lunch and then the anticipated trip to Toys R Us. As we neared the store I told Thomas we were almost there, knowing he must be pumped. He surprised me again.

"I can be very patient, Memaw, when I have someone to talk to. Even though I can't wait to get there, I can be patient as we talk."

"That's great, Thomas," I told him. "You're one of those who doesn't just look to the destination, but you also enjoy the ride."

I'm constantly learning from these 9 grandchildren! Each one has a unique perspective and a huge heart. I am blessed.

Happy birthday, Thomas! Enjoy your special day and always remember how much I love you!

July Divas - Mega Birthdays!

2010-07-23T10:14:00.003-05:00

The Texas Divas enjoyed another fabulous evening as we celebrated the birthdays of lovely divas Donna, Darlene, and Trish. Jeanne was missing due to work-related issues and we had hoped to honor her since she was out of the country on her June birthday. We look forward to seeing her in August.

Trish and Donna look regal in their birthday tiaras. Every woman deserves to wear a crown, if only for a few minutes, once a year.

The photo I took of Darlene in her tiara didn't turn out so we will settle for this one even though our sweet Paula wasn't being so sweet. And speaking of Paula - and speaking of sweet - she made another mouth-watering dessert for the July birthdays. We were treated to pineapple upside down cake and it was delicious! I don't know how this lady makes such wonderful desserts that not only taste heavenly, but look like a picture out of a magazine. She's ours. You can't have her.

A big Texas Diva welcome to Jacque, a friend of Cathy's, who visited with us and fit right in. We hope she will join our group, although Cathy warned her that the hazing can be rather cruel. One of the many things I love about our Texas Divas is that we joyfully accept new friends. Everyone who has visited us became one of us within seconds. What a beautiful group of women! I sincerely hope that Jacque will want to make the Texas Divas a regular habit. Welcome!

There were gifts galore, so many that we couldn't keep up with what each one received. My desire is to have our dinner in a quiet private home where we can all visit easily. We're growing in numbers, which is great, but we can't socialize with everyone at the table. I miss that. Perhaps we can play "musical chairs" at our next outing and visit with everyone. What a special bunch of ladies! I love you all!

Slumming It

2010-07-19T10:48:00.003-05:00

Oh, what fun the three of us had last night as we took a limo to dinner and Michael Buble concert! My concert pictures didn't turn out but I'm sure Allison will use my blog to upload some of her better ones of our evening. We laughed so hard at each other and especially Allison, who is a show all by herself.

Our limo arrives and we gracefully stepped in like we knew what we were doing. Our driver was so nice and polite and very accommodating.

I'm sure this is the first time a limo has pulled up in front of my house and that is just wrong.

Beautiful Allison looked right at home inside the limo. Her blue silk blouse brought out the gorgeous blue of her eyes. Beauty and fun in one delightful package.

Can we have a show of pinky fingers, please? We lived it up, thank you very much. How relaxing it was to be dropped off in front and not have to fight traffic. I wish we could have filled the limo. There was plenty of room for more friends and family. Actually, Allison's children couldn't understand why they couldn't be driven around in the limo while we were at dinner. Life can be so unfair.

Thank you, Patty, for allowing us to slum it for one special night.

Happy Birthday, Donna!

2010-07-18T00:30:00.000-05:00

My beautiful baby sister is celebrating a birthday today. How incredibly blessed I am that not only did God give me a sister, but He gave me the one I have. She has been my best friend, my confidante, and my shoulder to cry on. I can't imagine my life without her. She's as beautiful on the inside as she is on the outside.

On your birthday, Sissy, I want to thank you for being so generous with me - you spoil me with all those little gifts, for being the best aunt my kids could ask for and being so involved in their lives, for the great sister you have always been to me, and for sharing your gorgeous self, your lovely smile, your knee-slapping wit with me all these years. I've always loved you and that love grows only stronger with each passing year. Have a very happy birthday, Sissy!

Happy Birthday, Juliet!

2010-07-11T00:30:00.000-05:00

Pretty little Juliet is celebrating her 5th birthday today! I know she will be treated royally on this special occasion. That's a must since she likes anything having to do with a princess. This girl is all girl! When we're together she enjoys going through my collection of perfumes, and is excited to show me the variety of princess dresses hanging in her closet. Don't think we're ever going to find a Tom Boy here. Pink, or rosa, is her favorite color too.

Here's Juliet wearing one of her princess gowns last Christmas when she spent the night with me. We also enjoyed a tea party.

She's such a dainty, polite little lady and she has captured my heart big time. Have a very wonderful birthday, Juliet. I wish I could spend the day with you but always remember how much I love you!

Happy Birthday, Camryn!

2010-07-08T00:30:00.000-05:00

My beautiful granddaughter, Camryn, is 17 today! She's getting ready to enter her senior year in high school and definitely growing up too fast. We have a birthday dinner and shopping date planned for the weekend. Also, she wants to have a sleepover and I told her I was ready and still remember how to be a giggly teenager. We should have a blast!

Camryn, on this birthday I want to remind you again how special you are to me. I admire you so much - your good grades, holding down a job, your sweet character, and the positive, mature stand you have taken on certain subjects. I love you and I'm proud to call you my granddaughter.

Eclipse!

2010-06-30T12:07:00.003-05:00

Is there something wrong with an almost cougar and two somewhat senior citizens waiting in line to see the movie Eclipse? Can we simply be classified as young at heart? Or does that depend on what we were thinking as we feasted our eyes on Edward and Jacob? I know what I was thinking, but I can't vouch for Allison and Patty. I realize I'm old enough to be Jacob's grandmother, but he wasn't the one who captured the most of my attention.

We grabbed our tickets early, then headed out for dinner. Next, came the long wait in line. Allison was holding a place for Patty and me when we were confronted with the Line Police, a young woman who refused to move and let us advance in line to where Allison waited.

"You are not going ahead of me," she declared. She told her friend that we wanted to break in line and they both stood woodenly and would not let us by. I pointed out that my daughter was up ahead and holding our place (didn't anyone have to leave their spot for a bathroom break?).

She repeated, "You are not getting ahead of us." Patty and I had to find a friendlier entry into the long line and finally found our place ahead of the Line Police. I wanted to smile and wave at her from my closer position to Eclipse, but Allison thought I might cause a scene if I messed with a Twihard. She ended up in the same theater with us, but alas, farther back.

Finally seated, we ordered our popcorn and dessert and settled in for a long night. The time flew by and the movie was over before we knew it.

Patty stayed in the guest room and I crawled into bed at 3:00am, but couldn't sleep. I have a feeling I will want to sleep in a few minutes. Ah, but it was worth the fun we had being together and doing something crazy, just because we can.

Wicked!

2010-06-28T14:11:00.002-05:00

Allison took Baylee to see the musical Wicked and they both thoroughly enjoyed themselves. Since the musical is about the witches from Wizard of Oz, Baylee dressed as Dorothy - complete with Toto in a basket - and was the center of attention. She makes a very cute Dorothy.

Isn't she the sweetest Dorothy you have ever seen?

Sophia spent the day with Memaw and Papa and she was indulged! As it should be. I got in the pool with her and we had a grand time. Her cheeks were getting rosy and I was concerned that she was getting too much sun, but every time I asked if she was ready to go inside she said she wasn't. Then, after two hours of splashing and having the time of our lives, she told me she was ready to call it a day.

Here are my pretty girls as they were dropping off Sophia before the musical. I was happy to learn that Sophia smiled and clapped her hands when learning she would stay with us instead of attending the musical. That's my girl! She's so sweet and we really enjoyed her. We also enjoyed the special cupcakes Allison brought back. Mine was red velvet. Yum.

June Divas - Celebrating Paula P's Birthday

2010-06-25T12:03:00.003-05:00

When Paula told her friends that the Texas Divas were treating her to a birthday dinner at a gas station, she received some weird looks. But that's exactly what we did. Since Paula is such a dear member of our group, what better way to celebrate her big day than to serve up some yummies inside a gas station. However, we didn't feast on hot dogs or pre-made Blimpie sandwiches. We dined in style. From appetizers to the main course to the final dish of bread pudding, I think everyone enjoyed their selection.

Paula made a haul on the birthday gifts. She really received some nice things. One very special gift came from Cathy who had just returned from a trip abroad and brought back a rosary for Paula. It was beautiful. But then, Paula is a beautiful person.

We planned to snap a picture of Paula in front of one of the gas pumps, but it was raining when we left the restaurant. Still, she can tell her friends that we did, indeed, treat her to a fabulous birthday dinner in a gas station. The food was excellent. The company was even better.

Happy Birthday, Ashton!

2010-06-21T00:30:00.000-05:00

My fifth grandchild is 7 today! I so wish I could spend this birthday with him, but I plan to get my birthday wishes across the miles. He's already received our gifts and called to thank us. And I know a full weekend was planned in his honor. I love those celebrations that are spread out over days since birthdays only come once a year.

It's only 365 days until his next birthday, but I bet Ashton knows how many hours, minutes and seconds it will be before he turns 8. For now, we'll just enjoy our new 7-year-old brainiac.

Happy birthday, Ashton! You are such a sweet boy and I love you so much!

Pushy Salesmen

2010-06-08T13:41:00.004-05:00

I am not a salesman (or woman, whatever the proper terminology for it in today's world). I am not assertive enough, and I'm certainly not pushy or aggressive. There are those who can sell ice to an Eskimo and make him feel good about his purchase. Not me. Even if I totally believed in the product and thought it to be the best invention in history, I can imagine myself timidly asking, "You don't really want this, do you?".

But I can get aggressive if I'm pushed. I took a call at work one day when a woman claiming to be with the service company for my copier told me she was updating my file and could I please verify the serial number they had for me. I said, "Sure! What number do you have on file?". She paused, called me the B word and hung up. A few moments later she called back and when I answered she called me the B word again. Oh well, a little B word never hurt anybody.

The pushy salesman yesterday rang my doorbell and told me he was roofing houses in my neighborhood. Now, I seldom answer my door. If I don't recognize the car and I'm not expecting someone, I ignore bells and knocks. This time, however, I thought it might be someone for Robin, who was in the back yard working. I have a doormat on my front porch that says "Leave". It's a joke, of course, and I guess everyone takes it as such since I still get the solicitors. Note to self: buy a no solicitors sign.

This guy was a fast talker. I'm not saying he wasn't with a very legitimate company. He claims his company is displaying signs in yards all through the neighborhood. He might be an upstanding fellow. I'm just saying he was a fast talker and I had trouble getting a word in. Finally, I interrupted and told him in the present economy, we weren't putting on a new roof.

"Oh, no! Insurance will pay for it!"

"In the present economy, I don't want to pay a deductible right now."

"Oh, no! Your deductible will be figured into our price. This will cost you nothing. I'll meet with the insurance adjuster myself. You know, you can't put new shingles over old wooden ones, so we will take off all the shingles, add a radiant barrier which is energy efficient and gives you a good tax break on your return."

I'm wondering which insurance company pays for roof damage and decides to throw in a radiant barrier, just to be nice.

The conversation continues with few breaks to allow me to politely refuse his services and close my door. This guy's determined to get the sale. I held up my hand and interrupted him again.

"Let me explain how I do things. First, if I needed a new roof I would have called you, instead of you appearing on my doorstep telling me I need your service. Secondly, I don't make major decisions on my front porch, on the spur of the moment."

"Thank you." He turned quickly and walked off. He might have even thought of the B word.

Weekend Getaway

2010-06-07T18:33:00.005-05:00

Patty and I took off again for the weekend and our first stop was to see the birthday girl. My mother turned 84 years young on Friday. We brought chicken salad for lunch and a pecan roll for her to have with coffee the next morning. We ditched the buns we'd brought for the chicken salad when we saw Mother pull her rolls from the oven. They made a mighty good sandwich!
We watched Mother mix up more bread for her weekend company and wondered how a woman her age could mix such a thick amount of dough without coming up for air. She's definitely amazing.

My thoughts on this day were also on Chezzy who passed away on my mother's birthday 17 years ago. Each anniversary is sad, but this one held a greater emptiness knowing that Angela has now lived her life as long with him as without him. But no matter what the milestone, the impact he made on each of us is lasting and just as precious today as it's always been. He was a very loved man and one who returned that love in abundance.
After visiting with Mother, Patty and I headed farther east where we were booked in a lovely suite with plenty of room to move around. Besides taking it easy, we took in several antique stores.
When friends get away for the weekend there are only a few staples needed to get us by. This is the inside of our refrigerator. Very sparse for a reason.
Notice the kitchen counter. Peanut M&Ms and a coffeemaker. The stove and microwave were never touched, which is the whole purpose of the trip.

The only thing unpleasant about this trip was the bar right outside our window. There were some lively parties at all hours - lots of noise, laughter, squealing, and loud motorcycles. It started out quietly the first night when I asked Patty, "do you hear voices?"

"Yes," she said.

"Good," I responded.

Baylee's Graduation

2010-06-01T09:52:00.012-05:00

Nothing like a gentle tug on the heartstrings when watching a precious granddaughter graduate from preschool. It's such an innocent age and they feel so big, so proud, when crossing that stage for the award that spells out their great achievement. And the family sits there with tears in their eyes, wondering where the time went, how did she get this age without our noticing it.But Baylee managed to wipe our tears by being her usual animated self. She didn't just sing the songs with her class or receive her diploma with shyness. She performed. She smiled and waved, and moved on the stage as if she had to awe her audience. Yes, her audience.

After graduation we stopped by Sophia's classroom to peek in on her. She was excited to see us, to say the least. I love this picture of her with her teachers. This expression shows the warm affection she has for these women. So sweet.

Three reasons why being a grandma is so wonderful. Jude's arm around his baby sister shows what a loving, doting big brother he is.

Baylee with her BFFs. What a blessing friends are. Just picture these girls posing just like this in another ten years. Years only make a sweet friendship even sweeter.

Because Sophia was still in class, she missed being a part of this family picture. This was taken during the reception that followed. Jude was proud and anxious to put those flowers into Baylee's arms.

Three generations of ladies. I wish my mother could have attended to show off the one who started all of this.

I gave Baylee a card with money inside for her graduation. You'd think I'd given her $100, she was so grateful and happy. She kept asking her mother if they could go shopping with it.

Her diploma in hand, Baylee is smiling for her audience. Such a ham. I think her mother passed a healthy dose of "outgoing" to Baylee during the gestation period.

When asked what she wanted to be when she grew up, Baylee answered zoologist. For some reason, this came as no surprise to her family. The girl adores every animal she's in contact with and her heart is so big that it includes every kind, every species.

And finally, the picture that shows our true Baylee - the comic, the entertainer, the one who literally takes our breath away. Gotta love that girl.

May Divas

2010-05-29T19:05:00.003-05:00

Our May Diva outing included celebrating Allison's birthday, the only estrogen-pumped female in our group. I don't know that I miss the estrogen, but happy that my daughter is still young enough to have it. It dates me a little younger too.One of her gifts from Jan and Darlene was this pair of glasses, which has her posing as a believable schoolmarm. Always the good sport. I hope she hangs onto them because they might come in handy in a year or two.

We so missed Cathy who would be celebrating her one year anniversary as a Texas Diva. Unfortunately, a family emergency called her away and we understand, even if her presence was missed. But we did have a bonus. Paula F. took time away from her busy schedule to visit with us again. It was wonderful to see her and we hope she makes it a habit. Nothing like a good habit.

We happily indulged in chocolate flan, compliments of Paula P., the Diva Baker. She can put together some sinfully delicious desserts. Her birthday is next month in June and I'm wondering what possible creation could top the chocolate flan or the carrot cake. Thinking caps on, ladies.

Thanks also go to Paula P. for sharing pictures of our night together. Only one of mine turned out due to my camera's refusal to focus. I'd admit that I'm just not good at photography, but the truth is several others used my camera and with the same blurred results. I love that it's small and metallic pink, but will have to resort to the bigger black one from now on.

Thank you to everyone, for without YOU, the Texas Divas just wouldn't be any fun at all.

Rhyme Time

2010-05-23T19:16:00.002-05:00

A number of years ago I compiled my small collection of poems into notebooks to give to family members and friends. The following poem is one I wrote for the cover page.

My Poems

My poems can take me anywhere,

To places far and wide.

Or enter the chambers of my heart

To reveal what's there inside.

I can climb the highest mountains,

Describe a panoramic view.

I can paint a winter landscape

Though the morning's fresh with dew.

I can write about my feelings,

Somehow it always clears my mind!

And pull up pleasant memories

Of another place and time.

My poems can tell of sweet romance,

Of love that's strong and true.

I can detail every hurt and tear

When that love affair is through.

My poems can travel, see, and feel,

I'm the actress on the stage.

Whatever part I wish to play

Will be recorded on some page.

1995

Happy Birthday to Allison & Brian!

2010-05-10T00:30:00.000-05:00

There's an advantage when a couple shares the same birthday: You're not likely to forget the occasion. And I don't think anyone will let Brian forget that he turned 40 today. And we probably don't have to remind Allison that she is younger.The Birthday Couple are the proud parents of Jude, Baylee, and Sophia. It warms my heart to see how much they love their children. Each child feels extra special and sure of their place in the family. I'm thrilled, too, to know that Brian knows the joy of having Daddy's Girls. There's nothing like it.
I'm so proud of the woman Allison has always been. She was easy to raise, she was loving and funny, and had a beautiful character. Those attributes still shine brightly today. Plus, she's a wonderful, nurturing mother and a loyal and priceless member of our family.
This is my favorite picture of Brian because it shows his great sense of humor. When my book came out, he grabbed a tissue for this photo. I found it hilarious and so fitting. Thank you, Brian, for all the laughter over the years and for being brave enough to join this wacky family.
As part of her birthday and Mother's Day, I gave Allison our hospital bracelets from when she was born. One big one, one tiny one, one huge blessing. And since Angela had asked for my diamond wedding set for her own wedding, I gave Allison a wedding band that Chezzy had also given me. I'm so happy that both my daughters have the unbroken circles that had meant so much to me.

May God bless you both on your birthdays just as He blessed me with both of you.

Honoring Moms & Grandmas

2010-05-06T20:46:00.004-05:00

There are those delightful moments in life when you just feel like royalty. Whether perched on a lofty pedestal or lounging in an ivory castle, your perception of self-worth is soaring through orbit. You are all-important. You are on a higher plane. You are God's special gift. And all you had to do was walk through a door and enter the presence of a grandchild.That look of surprise, then the wide smile, two little arms opening as they rush into your own, and the excited squeal of "Memaw" fills the air, and your moment of being supreme has just taken place. I got to experience that today as I visited Sophia's pre-school classroom as they honored moms and grandmas this morning. She shyly acknowledged my presence in a roomful of other supreme beings, then smiled and rushed into my arms. How thrilled she was to have me in her element, and unexpectedly.
Allison and I listened to their sweet tributes and songs, and stole a quick visit to Baylee's room where I was exalted once more. I'm telling you, today I don't stink.
After spending time with the girls, we went to Jude's school to share lunch with him. He, too, didn't know I was coming. He stood in line to enter the cafeteria and spotted his mom. He was so happy to see her. Then, he noticed that I stood slightly behind her and the pedestal I was on elevated to the heavens. That's just how good they make you feel. And look at this cute boy with his missing front tooth! He's proud that he pulled it out himself.
Jude told me that when parents or grandparents visit for lunch that they sit at a special table, separate from the class. So his mom and I had him all to ourselves.
Proud Mama and Memaw were told by Jude's teacher that he was so polite and well mannered, and tells her jokes. She said she wished she had ten more like him in her class. I don't doubt it. Jude has a special knack of knowing how to make others feel special. He's a friend to everyone.

I thoroughly enjoyed my time with the kids today. I may be a little hard to live with for a few days, until I come down from the clouds where I've been. But I had my moments of glory and they will keep me until one of us walks in the door again.

A Squirrel's Demise

2010-05-02T22:15:00.002-05:00

There's nothing like sharing coffee with a friend on the patio and witnessing a brutal murder.

So it was on Friday, a beautiful afternoon and the beginning of a slumber party weekend, that Patty and I enjoyed coffee and conversation on the patio. We were giddy with the prospect of spending two days doing only what we wanted to do. We discussed the many possibilities - definitely eating out and not even thinking about cooking, maybe some shopping, and leaving plenty of time to just relax.

We decided on a restaurant for dinner and scouting out a book store for some good reading material. Our attention was diverted to the yard where George, a stray cat who has adopted us, was investigating something in the grass. Suddenly, we saw what looked like a squirrel do a quick flop in the grass and go still. For some reason I didn't question, Patty remained on the patio while I crossed the yard for a closer inspection.

I found either a sick or injured squirrel who wouldn't move a muscle as I approached. I could see that he was still breathing, but big horse flies had already claimed him. And sweet George seemed very sympathetic if a little playful. He would lightly tap the poor animal, or roll in the grass next to it. It was as if he sensed something wrong and would do no further damage. Finally, however, George lost interest or decided to let the squirrel die with dignity. Patty and I, too, quit watching the spot in the grass and continued our conversation.

Minutes passed, then Patty pointed to what she believed was another ill squirrel on the pool decking. Again, she remained seated while I investigated. I noticed the one in the grass was gone and assumed it had crawled to the decking. But unfortunately for the squirrel, it wasn't George who noticed him again, but Lucky, another stray that feeds in our back yard.

I will point out here that Robin names all the cats that eat at our house. There are five now. He has a quirky sense of humor that defies explanation, but I will say that there is a reason behind each name. Lucky will happily take the food and bedding we supply, but we have not gained his trust. We have not touched this cat. He won't allow it. Anyway, I once saw Lucky running down our driveway with a squirrel in his mouth, so I knew he was about to put this squirrel out of its misery.

Lucky did a stealthy approach as only a cat can do. He seemed surprised that his victim didn't jump up and run. He crept closer and closer. Then, he went in for the kill. Patty and I cringed at the sound the squirrel made, but it was shrill, brief, and over in seconds. Lucky carried his prey behind a tree at a far corner of the yard. It was over. And although it had been traumatic for us as well, I was relieved the suffering was over. The squirrel was obviously ill and in the throes of death. Lucky was his Dr. Kavorkian.

After a few shivers, I looked at Patty and asked, "Ready to go eat now?"

And so we did.

Texas Divas - April Outing

2010-04-29T22:20:00.003-05:00

There's an affectionate saying among the Divas: It's all about Donna. Actually, she is one of the most unselfish people I know and I'm sure everyone will agree. However, this particular Diva post is "all about Donna."

Donna was the Diva in charge this month and selected a wonderful Mexican restaurant for our monthly dinner. She also had a drawing and I won. Her sister. No, it wasn't rigged, but I left with some handy kitchen tools for being the winner. I thought her idea was a good one, and would think so even if I hadn't been the winner.

Donna also had a horrifying story to share with us. Last night she went outside in her bare feet to call for her dog. She stayed on the sidewalk, in the light from the porch, knowing to be careful since they have seen more than their share of rattlesnakes. So, she called the dog, then turned to go back inside. A rattlesnake blocked her path. And her feet are bare. She'd just polished her toenails and, ladies, we know you don't put shoes on after doing toenails. Not even if you live in a rattlesnake pit.

So, she hopped over it, ran inside, and alerted her husband. He was able to find the snake and put an end to its scare tactics. And, I might add, we all saw Donna's toenails this evening and they were no worse for the wear. My suggestion to my sweet sister: The next time you do your toenails, do not go outside until they dry.
We forgot about pictures until we were leaving the restaurant. By that time, Paula and Trish had already left. But here are the remaining wind-blown Divas.

What a fun group! We missed Jan, Darlene, and Jeanne, and hope they will join us for our May outing. We'll be celebrating my beautiful daughter Allison's birthday with Diva Deb in charge. Great job, Donna! You and your toenails done good.

Patio Improvements

2010-04-27T14:19:00.003-05:00

Robin and I gave our patio a little facelift over the weekend. And we actually had fun doing it. We gathered empty flower pots and filled them with new blooms.
This is a good place for morning coffee under the carport. Now the little table sports a flower. The brick flowerbed looks barren, but there are flowers poking through the sod from seeds we'd planted.

Besides the flowers, the patio furniture is redressed with new cushions. I'm hoping the cats who like to nap on them will keep the squirrels away. They like to build nests out of our cushions.

The center pot is a cute teacup I bought at Wally World last year, but hadn't gotten around to filling it. I'm hoping the rust on the furniture deems it retro, and therefore not neglected.

This year Wally World had a smaller teacup, but same price. Inflation. But I love the tulip shape and the pink. Other colors are available in yellow, red, and plum. I sound like the penny-pincher version of Angela's blog.

Even the mailbox received some color. I know we won't be featured in Homes & Gardens, but the little bit of work we did helped restore some interest in my home. Sometimes we just need a little boost.

Packaging

2010-04-17T11:50:00.003-05:00

Most manufacturer's put a lot of thought into packaging. Sometimes these products catch your eye and you want them, whether you need them or not. They just look so darn tantalizing. Perfumes, especially, are often boxed so beautifully that I wonder if half of the price is for packaging. Since perfume is my passion, they can reel me in regardless of how it's presented.

But what about the packaging that is downright irritating? Oh, there are many. How often have you purchased a baking dish or cookie sheet and fought to remove the glue residue from their label? I've soaked them, scrubbed them, cursed at them, and they still retain their stubborn ways. There are better ways to apply the product name and I applaud those companies who have found it.

Canned goods are another source of irritation. I detest can openers. They are nasty. Even more, I don't like to use them and have the contents splash up on the lid. That's unsanitary, even if I've wiped the lid before opening. I prefer the pull-tops that make opening the can as clean as possible. Thank you Campbells and others who have gone this route.

And what about makeup? Oh, the vain women that we are, how the industry takes advantage of us. Have you noticed how the expensive serum that is supposed to erase all signs of age comes in a glass bottle with a pump that leaves a good half inch at the bottom? I have bruised my palm by pounding the remaining miracle-working serum free from its lowly place. We are charged for the full product, even if we are unable to reach the full product.

Tubes won't give up all its lotions and creams either. I've never been a tight-wad but I do like to get my money's worth. I don't go so far as snipping off the top in order to get to the bottom, but I've thought about it. I usually give in to the manufacturer's intent, and go out to buy another one.

But I have found a way to ease my frustration. I only buy moisturizer in wide-mouth jars so I can use every last bit. I run my frugal finger all around that jar until it's completely empty. I got my money's worth. Many foundations can be found in jars with openings wide enough to cake the very last smidgen on your face. I support these products since they were designed to be easily consumed.

Have you ever had your shaving cream stop working even though you shake it and hear something in there? Do you stand your ketchup on its head so gravity will do its work? Do you add a little water to your shower gel, shampoo, or dishwashing liquid, shake it to mix with the remaining product, so you can use it once more? Maybe I am a tight-wad. Or maybe manufacturer's just know how to package their products so we will purchase more often.

Still, I believe it's the cosmetics industry that gains the most by their packaging. They pretty much have full rein because we, as women, are more concerned about how we are packaged.

A Dozen Years!

2010-04-01T00:01:00.001-05:00

Today, instead of celebrating our 12th anniversary, Robin and I have decided to call it quits.Happy April Fool's Day! Gotcha!

Birthday Fun with Candice

2010-03-30T22:59:00.003-05:00

Candice and I celebrated her 19th birthday tonight with shopping and dinner. We had a fabulous time, although my camera had focusing issues and refused to capture the moment clearly.I dropped the mint chocolate chip ice cream she requested that I make, posed for pictures, then took off for the mall. Our first visit was a cosmetic shop where Candice chose some makeup and nail polish.

This cute dress was purchased, along with a few other things that Candice treated herself to.

She insisted that Memaw have her picture taken with this trendy little top from a strictly teen store. Maybe I could get away with wearing it. On a dark night. Alone.

After shopping we relaxed over dinner and conversation. We enjoyed our girl time. I love these birthday excursions with the grandchildren since we get a lot of one-on-one time together. Candice was a real joy tonight. Love my girl!

Texas Divas' March Lunch

2010-03-27T17:37:00.002-05:00

We had a great showing at our Diva lunch today. The more the merrier, right?These lovely ladies are Trish, Paula and Cathy.

A big Texas Diva welcome to Jeanne, between me and Deborah. She tried us out today and we're hoping she liked what she saw. Actually, we made her one of us before she even met with us. That's Texas Diva hospitality.

Darlene and Jan missed our last lunch and we were happy to have their smiling faces back among us.

My beautiful Sissy and Patty. Patty may kill me for posting a picture of her eyes half closed but she looks better than I do. My face is gray and looks like another heart attack on the horizon. Maybe it's the lighting. Or maybe I don't know how to apply make up. Or maybe I'm a Doomsday-ist.

One picture was blurred and I left it out. It had my beautiful daughter in it and I apologize to her for being blind as a bat and not catching it.She looked adorable as usual and I know all of you will take my word for it.

Fun times! Every time!

Happy 19th Birthday, Candice!

2010-03-26T00:01:00.000-05:00

This beauty is 19 today. That pretty much dates me too since she's my oldest grandchild. But age aside, my Candy Girl has been a blessing to my life. I still remember the first time I held her and experienced the awe and wonder of being a grandmother. Now, that darling pink bundle has morphed into a beautiful young woman who has so much on the ball.Candice is now a college student and can boast some impressive grades. That brain is going to take her places and I'm so proud of her accomplishments. You go, girl! Now, let's get this celebration going and have some fun. Happy birthday, with all my love.

Soaking up the Rays

2010-03-24T17:10:00.003-05:00

Usually these two guys aren't this chummy, but they are sharing a patch of warm sunlight on the floor of the dining room. I've seen them in there separately but never together this close. Weasil, the gray boy, has attitude. He's moody and grumpy, and wants it all on his terms. Parker, our orange boy, has a history of being a cuddle bug with other cats in the house, but he's learned that Weasil is no social butterfly.It took awhile, but Weasil finally likes me. He will warm my side during the night, rest his head on my arm, and welcome any rubs I might give as long as they don't exceed the number he wants. If they do, I get bit. He loves Robin as much as Weasil is capable of loving anyone or anything. But Robin can pull a nasty growl from him, too, by just being there. He merely tolerates Parker. Sometimes. He will sneak up to sniff Parker's butt, then hiss when Parker turns to investigate. When Parker returns the favor and sniffs Weasil's butt, Weasil will hiss again. It's not easy to please the Weasil.

Now, Parker is loving and will let me pet him as long as I want. He snuggles in my lap or stretches along my legs and falls asleep. He likes his people. He doesn't bite the hand that feeds him. But even though Parker is docile and sweet, he's getting fed up with Weasil's attitude. He's beginning to chase and taunt Weasil. Maybe Parker just wants a playmate. Robin thinks he's being mean. I have to remind Robin often that they are cats and are doing what cats do. They aren't children to be reasoned with even though they are our boys.

So considering the varied personalities of these two guys, I was surprised to see them peacefully sharing a bit of sunshine. George Clone-y, the newcomer and our black boy, has not been fully accepted by the other two and was not prepared to share the limelight for this picture. He'll adjust very well soon enough, but he will never be a favorite of Weasil's. It's just not in the gray boy's nature.

A Weekend Getaway

2010-03-20T23:19:00.003-05:00

Every once in awhile you just have to pack a bag, grab a friend, and get out of Dodge. Friends understand the need for the occasional getaway. After all, how often do women get a day off? I mean, really get a day off? No cooking, no cleaning, no washing, no going to work. Even if the house is clean and the laundry is done, we have to eat. So, yes, a girls getaway is a must. A couple of days with hotel maids, waiters and waitresses is good for the soul.Patty and I headed to East Texas with our eyes on the pottery store in Marshall. It wasn't what we expected. I'd heard a lot about it and envisioned aisle upon aisle stacked with every kind of pottery from place settings to home decor to garden paradise. It wasn't that extensive but we had a wonderful lunch in Marshall and learned of another pottery and home decor store in Longview. We headed there and struck gold. We browsed for a long time and found many pretty things.

Shopping works up an appetite and we had dinner at a delightful local Mexican restaurant before heading to the hotel for the night.

We found the portion we wanted on the senior menu. I told the waiter we were ordering from it and to please ask us for ID. He did as requested and laid it on thick about how he would have to confirm our age before putting the order through. We tipped him well.

Back at the hotel, I showered and crawled into my bed and could not keep my eyes open. And I didn't have to. There was no kitchen to clean.

Next getaway: Antiques. Somehow that fits.

8-Year-Old Cousins

2010-03-18T18:00:00.003-05:00

Get two 8-year-old cousins together and they can entertain themselves very well. I was only needed when they were hungry, thirsty, or needed chocolate chip ice cream. Oh, I was asked to tell them a bedtime story, which I did, using talking bionicles that made me look cool.
This bare-chested duo are sporting tattoos that they had Papa put on them.

They spent much of their time building with Legos and created this castle from a big tub of blocks we keep for the grandchildren.

They wanted a bionicle face on their pancakes instead of the usual funny one. This is my feeble attempt. Thomas gave me a mask to go by, but my efforts didn't produce a match.

We headed to the park after breakfast. They used this time to burn off some energy.

From the park, we went to get lunch and cherry limeades, which were refreshing after all the running, jumping and spinning they did. They said they wished cousin Ashton could have joined them for the sleepover. I do too! It wasn't an exciting trip to Disney World for Spring Break, but Thomas and Jude were content to spend this time together.

Happy 8th Birthday, Jude!

2010-03-15T00:01:00.000-05:00

Jude is celebrating his 8th birthday today! Papa and I had a wonderful time with him yesterday when we did the traditional birthday lunch and shopping trip.Jude was able to double the gift experience since birthday money had been coming in. He kept his purchases separate from mine and handled the transaction like a pro.

We spent the most time on the Lego aisle. He loves them and has a huge collection.

We enjoyed Mexican food before our shopping spree. Jude chose the restaurant.

Memaw loves the Jude Juice. It energizes her and fills her up.

Jude is one of the sweetest boys I know. He is so appreciative of everything that is done for him. He thanked us over and over for the lunch and gifts. A few days ago I gave him a choice of ice cream he wanted me to make. He chose one but told me he knew anything I made would be delicious. He tells me I am the best Memaw ever and that I'm beautiful. You don't have to ask me why I love him so! He's tender-hearted, he's smart, he's funny, and he is super special. Happy birthday to my Jude!

Jude's A Winner!

2010-03-05T16:24:00.002-06:00

It's not an Olympic Silver Medal but it sure looks like one!

Jude placed really well at the speech meet sponsored by the Association of Christain Schools International. He recited Bible verses in the category of Bible Memorization for his grade level. An awards ceremony was held this afternoon to recognize the winners. Jude received a blue ribbon for "superior" in his category and a silver medal. He was so excited about both tokens of a job well done.

There was never any doubt in our minds that he would knock their socks off. He has confidence that usually takes years to build, and a love and acceptance of others. He's just so approachable and friendly. He stood on that stage, looked the judges in the eyes, and recited his verses. His Mom was also a good coach in preparing him for his stage appearance.

But hey, this kid was on the cover of Fort Worth Child magazine. Of course he won awards today. We're all so proud of him.

Jude is the Dude!

Fun with Pancakes

2010-03-05T15:59:00.002-06:00

There's a standard answer when I ask the younger grandchildren what they want for breakfast: Funny Face Pancakes. The two older ones have matured beyond the funny face stuff and opt for eggs and hash browns.Sophia told me she wanted a mad face. My limited skill produced a face that was more sad than mad. She was still pleased, but Baylee asked where the angry eyebrows were. Why didn't I think of that?

Baylee's pancake has the upturned smile. By the time I got to mine, I just poured batter and didn't care if there was a face or not.

We took a long walk, watched some TV, and enjoyed corn dogs for lunch. The highlight of the day was the return of the two ducks to our pool. The girls were thrilled to see that sight.

We had a great time and they managed to melt my heart again.

Tea Party Sleepover

2010-03-04T21:26:00.002-06:00

Baylee and Sophia had a sleepover with us tonight since Jude has to be at his Speech Meet so early in the morning and it will last most of the day. They wanted to know if we were going to have a tea party. Well, of course, when the girls are here we are supposed to do girlie things. After a dinner of lasagna the three of us got in the kitchen and whipped up some blueberry muffins. I pulled out the tea set, hats and tiaras, and polished all our nails while the muffins baked. Pink sparkly nails are a must at tea parties.
We are enjoying our tea as the muffins cool.

The girls think it is so funny to include Papa in our tea parties and he's always a good sport. He can handle that little teacup as well as we do. The girls enjoy pouring and serving us.

What's a party without a clown? Baylee, as usual, had the quote of the day: "Papa, you're going to squeeze your brain."

There was a little drama at bedtime when Sophia exclaimed that her pajama top and bottoms didn't match. It took a little convincing for her to agree to be seen in them. Girls will be girls. More fun tomorrow.

Break a leg, Jude, at the Speech Meet!

Happy Birthday, Ron!

2010-02-28T00:01:00.000-06:00

I want to recognize my handsome son on his birthday today. He's been an absolute joy and I'm very proud of him. He's always been able to pull a laugh out of me with his funny antics. He shares a great sense of humor with his two sisters.
The three greatest accomplishments in my life are pictured here. I have every right to brag and I do so very easily and often!

My Birthday Boy has had the honor of working with me for almost 26 years. Well, it wasn't always a honor. He's witnessed my tantrums and I've seen his. Still, he knows he's indispensable to me. Ron is one of the most talented engineers I know. He can design and produce parts that astound our customers. And he has an easy way with everyone we do business with and they all admire him. Not as much as I do, of course.

It was only a few years ago when I first stared at this blond, blue-eyed baby boy and knew instantly that I was in love. Through the years that love has exceeded my own expectations. Happy birthday, Ron. I love you more than life itself.

Words Ending in "ic"

2010-02-27T00:05:00.003-06:00

You might think I'm a little eccentric, but I like words that end in ic. Just as an artistic person loves color, a writer can be a fanatic about words. I have found some paragraphs so poetic in their presentation that I go back and read them again. I just enjoy how the English language can be magnetic, drawing so many words together to form a beatific thought.

Although my own writing has been problematic lately and I've tackled the book in progress at a very erratic pace, I still feel ecstatic about completing it. I feel the topic could be very interesting and the characters have very eclectic backgrounds. I hope to become energetic very soon and begin typing away. Maybe an exotic getaway would do the trick. But I don't want to panic over it. The logic I live by is that writing should be fun, not a caustic acid that eats away at me. Still, it might take a sonic boom to wake me from my autistic stupor.

At this point, you are probably thinking I'm manic and need professional help. Perhaps a medic, or a cleric, or a psychic could find a magic or systematic cure for what ails me. But you can't teach an old relic new tricks.

Texas Divas are a Crazy Bunch!

2010-02-15T12:28:00.004-06:00

I love this picture. Can't have fun without a little insanity. Our group has that in reserve.

OK, I Promise This is the Last Birthday Post

2010-02-14T16:40:00.002-06:00

Until I get my scrapbook, that is. I'll want to share it with all of you.

I had another birthday treat today when my son came over with his homemade ice cream. He received a Cuisinart ice cream maker for Christmas and asked what flavor I wanted for my birthday. Yeah, he's three weeks late, but you have to understand sons.

I opted for peppermint chocolate chip. Ron added the peppermint extract, big chunks of chocolate and a hint of green food coloring to give it a realistic appearance. It was delicious! I had it for breakfast, which is unconventional by some standards. But I'd slept late and hadn't eaten by the time he appeared on my doorstep. You know how it goes, I had to try it.

What was really unique was the card he brought with the ice cream. It had a pretty dessert dish with mounds of ice cream, topped with birthday candles. Inside, a spoon pops up and it says, "It's your birthday. Dig in!" How appropriate is that?

I make homemade ice cream for all the grandchildren birthdays and Ron said it was only right that he make me some on mine. Thank you, Ron, for making my birthday complete and my hips a little broader.

Now, dear daughters, the pressure is on for the finished scrapbook. What wonderful children I have!

Texas Divas Birthdays!

2010-02-13T20:24:00.003-06:00

Wow! We celebrated four Diva's birthdays today. Two turned 60 and two are turning 57. A polite person wouldn't even venture a guess which ones they are. The birthday Divas are Deborah, Cathy, Patty and myself, who hasn't tired of all the celebrating.

Feast your eyes on this cake! It was huge! Paula baked this masterpiece carrot cake and it was the best one any of us have ever tasted. The cake pan is so big that she had to bake one layer at a time. We almost forfeited lunch so we could enjoy dessert first. We had some happy husbands when we got home with Hungry Man portions of this delicious cake. Thanks, Paula. You've just been designated Texas Diva Baker of the Year. The title includes supplying rich desserts for each Diva outing. Sorry. You brought it on yourself, girlfriend.

Deborah, Paula - Texas Diva Baker of the Year, and Cathy.

Patty and I are pictured with Trish, Paula's sister, who has officially joined our crazy group. Welcome, Trish! You fit right in.

My beautiful daughter, Allison, and equally beautiful sister, Donna, always add so much humor and fun when we're all together.

Here we are. This picture looks like trouble about to happen. Never a dull moment when the Texas Divas meet for lunch. I'm honored to have each one in my life.

Winter Wonderland

2010-02-11T19:20:00.003-06:00

What could be more relaxing than watching the silent beauty of falling snow? It blanketed our yard all day in non-stop quietness. I loved it.

A Cherished Poem by my Sister

2010-02-11T13:08:00.003-06:00

As part of my birthday, my daughters are making me a scrapbook. They asked for comments from friends and family. My sister, Donna, wrote me a poem that reduced me to tears. I want to share it here, although I realize that some of it are inside jokes between us, while most is about our relationship during childhood.

Donna and I usually had kitchen duty and we harmonized while doing dishes. It made the chore bearable and faster. We also used to write poems for each other, most of which were tacky but all in fun. Now that I've set the stage, here's her beautiful poem.

A Poem For My Sister, Peggy

How do I start to write a rhyme for someone like my Sis,
As her ability is far better; that talent gene I missed.
Battle of the poets, she would always win.
Making fun of my bra size was to me a sin.

Early in our childhood, we had our standard chores,
Sweeping, dusting, mopping and picking up the floors.
We'd be doing dishes, Peggy washed and I dried,
Singing and telling stories, yes, making this fun, we tried.

My sister Peg is good, but also she is vain,
The rear view mirror episode was really quite insane.
I'd love to know the sacker's thoughts when to you he said goodbye.
That one last look in the mirror, didn't you just want to cry?

I'm so thankful I was blessed with the sister that I got,
She always treated me special though I could be a little snot.
Pretending I was Peggy when the cute young boys would phone,
Begging to go with her and Pat so I wouldn't be alone.

Peggy finds humor in oh so many things,
Though her heart is warm and generous, gives without any strings.
She is a friend of mine and I know to many others,
A wonderful grandma to nine and a kind and loving mother.

I thank God for you, Peggy, you have always shown you cared,
Even with your offspring you were willing with me to share.
I'm looking toward eternity at that heavenly kitchen sink,
Singing Drummer Boy with our Daddy,
He'd like that, don't you think?

I love you, Sissy!

Donna

Isn't that beautiful? Tears were stinging my eyes as I typed it. I will no longer make fun of Donna's poetry after this masterpiece. Well, maybe in fun.

Thank you, Donna, for words I will treasure for a lifetime. I love my Sissy!

My Birthday - Again

2010-02-07T15:08:00.005-06:00

These pictures were taken on my actual birthday and before we met up with my three cousins for dinner. If you're having a major event and need it spiced up a bit, invite our group of fun ladies.Angela put her camera on a timer and was able to capture the five of us together.

The Birthday Girl is getting lots of birthday hugs.

Mama and her two beautiful daughters, affectionately known as Mutt and Jeff. I love these girls!

With best friends Patty and Cheryl on each side of me I'm one of the luckiest people alive.

Our waiter graciously snapped this picture of our lunch in what used to be the stables at the Biltmore.

Here we are in front of the Biltmore Estate, picture compliments of our shuttle driver.

My beautiful, perky Allison.

The tour ended and we were headed off for dinner with cousins Linda, Barbara, and Trisha. I left there very thankful that I don't have a house that large to clean!

Meet the New Robin

2010-01-26T20:31:00.003-06:00

Imagine my surprise when I arrived home from my trip to find a new man greeting me at the door. I saw the difference immediately. Robin had shaved off his beard. I've known this man for many years since we met through our businesses, but I've never seen him without fuzz on his face. I've been staring at him ever since. I mean, this is the real deal. No cover-ups.
Please voice your opinions. Should Robin cover his mug with hair or just go bare? He tends to think he looks older without the beard, but I reminded him of all the gray in his beard like a good wife should.

I think he looks younger without the beard, although his skin is pale where the sun hasn't shone in decades. And the kisses! They are better, too!

So, what's the verdict? He's thinking of growing it back in a month or so. Right now, I vote for no beard. I'm enjoying the new look for now. But I think he's handsome either way.

Hair or no hair?

60th Birthday Party, Days 2 - 6

2010-01-24T22:00:00.006-06:00

Five of the ladies piled in on Angela the first day we arrived. I was happy to spend some time with the three grandchildren I don't see as often. This is my beautiful Juliet. She's our little princess. She was thrilled that there would be 7 girls in the house, saying "this is the happiest day of my life". Oh yes, she will be part of the GNO crowd before we know it.

This is Callan with the golden locks and blue eyes. He called for Memaw all day then got shy when I arrived. I managed some good loving off of him. Such a doll.

Angela with Ashton. He's such a handsome guy and was happy to see us arrive. He played the drums and keyboard for us and I was very impressed.

Memaw and Juliet.

How happy I was to have my friend Cheryl come from Florida to celebrate my big day. I couldn't wait to see her!

Patty, my traveling buddy, made the long road trip so enjoyable. We laughed every mile of the way.

My beautiful sister Donna and Angela as we visited over Mexican food.

Here I am sandwiched between the two best friends anyone could have. I am so fortunate to have them.

Cheryl, Angela, and Allison as we lunched at the Biltmore Estates in Asheville, North Carolina.

The birthday dinner was at a Mediterranean restaurant where we met up with my three cousins who arrived that day. Boy! Did they add to the fun!

Donna, Angela, Cousins Barbara and Trisha.

Cousin Linda is the gorgeous redhead in the middle. She'll catch up with me in March.

Linda and Trisha in the hot tub. Donna and Angela also braved the cold mountain temperatures to soak for awhile. I was going to get in, but never made it. Might be the aforementioned temperatures.

I was having too much fun partying that I didn't blog all these days the 9 of us were together. We had a wonderful time. The mountains just echoed with our laughter. My beautiful daughters gave me this special birthday celebration, complete with a massage (by a man, no doubt) and a memorable scrapbook that is in stages of completion and had me in tears. I will cherish it always.

More party pictures to follow soon.

60th Birthday Party, Day 1

2010-01-19T21:59:00.002-06:00

Patty and I had a pleasant first leg of our trip. We are now in the Hampton Inn in Jackson, Mississippi, ready to turn in and start driving in the morning. We have laughed a lot and I'm sure that will only get louder and more frequent as we meet up with five others in our group tomorrow night in Atlanta.
Since today is the first anniversary of my Dad's death, we stopped by my Mother's and took her to lunch and to the cemetery. Brother Gene went with us. We didn't want her to be alone today and it was only a small detour from my trip. We still can't get used to this marker and seeing his name there. We all miss him so much.

Patty is relaxing after a long trip and looking good all scrubbed and free of makeup. I, on the other hand, look like I'm about to turn 60.

I'm being a good sport here. A really good sport. I'd washed my hair in the shower, removed all makeup, and look awful. Patty said it was a sweet picture. That means I look awful. I'd told her earlier that we could have breakfast in the morning before makeup and then come back to the room to finish getting ready. She said, "I didn't just hear you say that". She and everyone else know I won't go to the mailbox at the curb without makeup, so I agreed to be photographed sans makeup and concealer. Sorry, folks. Sixty ain't always pretty.

Makeup or not, we're having a ball!

The Celebration has begun!

2010-01-16T00:01:00.000-06:00

One thing I love about birthdays with friends and family is that the celebrating can go on for days and days. And since I view birthdays as a blessing, that is a good thing.
Paula, who happens to be one of the most thoughtful people I know, invited Patty and I to lunch yesterday since our birthdays are 15 days apart. We had so much fun together, but then we always do.

When we were in our teens I would tease Patty after I had my birthday and tell her I wouldn't speak to her again until she reached my age. When you're a teenager, it's really big stuff to be the oldest. Now, however, I tell her I won't speak to her because she is younger. It's funny how all of a sudden you get to that magical age when you no longer boast about it.

Thank you, sweet Paula, for always remembering the important occasions and being so generous. She's said she can't forget my birthday because it's the same day as her daughter's. I will never forget hers either since it's the same day as mine and Chezzy's anniversary.

I am blessed with such incredible friends and I'm happy they love to get together so often. Now, it's time to pack for the birthday trip and let the party go on and on!

Remembering Sugar

2010-01-15T00:01:00.002-06:00

My Dad - lovingly known by me as Sugar - would have celebrated his 83rd birthday today. As we all gathered around him on his last birthday, we knew his time left with us was short. But he was so alert, so enjoying all of us, that it was still a shock when he died four days later. Losing someone you love has a numbing effect, no matter what you've been told to expect.

Sugar was an incredible man. Most kids believe their dad can do anything. I knew mine could. I grew up as a privileged witness to his vast talents, his strong work ethic, and the productive use of his time. He played the piano flawlessly. He sang. He built his church, and his home, and his shop. He repaired every appliance known to man. He made cabinets. He wallpapered. He did electrical and plumbing. He tape and bedded, painted and plowed. There was nothing too big for his big strong hands. Capable hands. And he did many of these things for other people, always lending a helping hand.

Sugar was a man of character. He was a pillar in his church, with an unwavering belief in God. There were years in his adult life when he stopped going to church. I remember one day in my teens when he dropped me off for church services on his way to work. I'd told him I wished he were going in with me and he said he did too.

"But always remember this, Peggy," he told me. "The church is right. Your daddy is wrong."

I will never forget that perfect example of character. He admitted that his spiritual life was lacking instead of placing the blame on the church or its members. No wonder the day came when he walked back into the church he loved and never walked out again. And what a peace to know that the names of all his loved ones were on his lips as he remained in a constant state of prayer. Having a Christian father is a true blessing. Having that Christian example is priceless.

Sugar went to sleep in Christ, knowing he had fought a good fight. He had read all our birthday letters to him and knew how much he was loved. Throughout his short illness, he was surrounded by those who loved and respected him for the great man he was. If it's possible to have the perfect way to die, he had it. Faith in a loving God, a family that adored him, and a belief in eternal life. How beautiful it would be if we could all leave this life with these three things.

Sugar's funeral was held on my birthday. It was a sad day for me and my family, but a time of pride as we shared this man and his character with all who were in attendance. What an honor to be his daughter.

I miss you, Sugar, and thank you for being a Christian father we all looked up to.

Glaring at 60

2010-01-09T14:19:00.002-06:00

I've used the word glaring since we're supposed to wince at the thought of entering a new decade with its added signs of age. It's popular to celebrate with black balloons, napkins printed with "over the hill", and gag gifts of adult diapers and Polident. I laugh at all the jokes about aging and the maladies that come with it. Maybe because I can relate.

But with all joking aside, I have always viewed another birthday as a blessing. Many, many people haven't seen their 60th birthday. I feel extremely fortunate that mine is less than two weeks away. In the last three and a half years I have had two trips to the emergency room that would have been fatal had I not gone. Yes, turning 60 is a blessing.

Looking back at these 60 years I have many regrets, many moments of joy, many people in my life that made life worth living. There are experiences I would love to relive, and some that I would not. I have been adored, loved, angered, saddened, disappointed, broken, and happy. This makes me not that much different than anyone else.

Who am I at 60? I hope I'm the same person but with a lot more confidence. Age has also brought a mellowing in that I no longer waste time over little things. My priorities are arranged in a realistic order. I know my strengths and weaknesses and I'm aware that perfection is not obtainable. I'm OK with that. I'm enjoying the increased independence that comes with age and I've learned not to look in the mirror with my reading glasses on.

But enough of this sentimental reflecting. The best part of turning 60 is PARTY time! I get to wake up on my birthday on a beautiful North Carolina mountain with the two best daughters anyone could ask for, a sister who is second to none, two friends who constantly amaze me that a friendship can be so perfect, and three cousins who asked to crash the party and will be loads of fun! Nine women laughing and being crazy! And a spa day for the pampering all women want.

Turning 60 will be painless.

Most Details are Unnecessary

2010-01-03T21:29:00.002-06:00

As I approach a milestone birthday I would like to ask friends and family to alert me of any forgetfulness, repeating myself, or going into too much detail (I may regret this). I've been around too many people lately who go into needless detail that adds nothing to the conversation or subject matter.

For example:

"My neighbor, Robert, oh what's his last name?" (A big pause here.) "Oh, I can't think of his last name." (Another pause before it's dismissed and the story continues.)

The truth is, all I need to know is that you are going to tell me something about your neighbor. You could tell me his last name, even pitch in his middle name, Social Security number, height, weight, and blood type, and I'd still not know this guy. Just get on with the story and omit the irritating details.

I've also listened to this scenario: "I went there on Tuesday, or maybe it was Wednesday. No, it had to be Tuesday......"

I don't really care which day it was, just tell me where you went and why. Yes, I've caught myself doing this and quickly go on with the story. All the added filler adds nothing to the conversation.

Am I just getting impatient in my later years?

New Book!

2009-12-31T22:45:00.003-06:00

Did you know I authored a third book? Well, neither did I! Imagine my shock when I unwrapped a gift this Christmas and saw a book with my name as the author. Angela had taken "Our Story" from my blog and made it into a book. I was overwhelmed with joy!

Our Story tells about the grief recovery journey that Cheryl and I traveled together. Our friendship has so many fascinating stories that I decided to do a series on it through the blog. I never expected to see it in book form, complete with pictures, and my name on the cover. I immediately asked Angela if she had sent a copy to Cheryl. She said Cheryl had received hers that very day and was so excited to talk to me about it. Cheryl was as thrilled as I am with the book. We both sat down and read it again. What is really special is that Angela included Cheryl's comments after each chapter.

I wish this picture could capture the real beauty of the book. My camera flash is reflected in the glossy book cover even though I snapped several times and at different angles. This was the best shot.

Thank you, Angela, for a keepsake Christmas gift that will always be cherished by Cheryl and me. You're a special daughter to your Mom and Mom II. We love you!

Christmas with my Wonderful Kids!

2009-12-30T12:29:00.004-06:00

Our 4th and final Christmas for 2009 was last night and we had a ball. There was a slew of eager grandchildren, just waiting to tear into the presents. Christmas has always been the most fun when children are involved.I'm always proud of the family pictures. Here's my beautiful Allison with her family. Sophia didn't feel well and was not in the picture taking mode. Nothing is much fun when sick.

My beautiful Angela with her family. I'm so thankful they came for Christmas and I really enjoyed the sleepover with these precious kids.

My handsome Ron with his beautiful family. We missed Candice, who had to work. I was happy that Camryn was able to rearrange her work schedule.

Mama with her three grown up babies. Ron thought it funny to mess up my hair but I have news for him: it was already a mess due to my hot rollers biting the dust. Thanks to Angela and Clayton for slipping in a new set when I wasn't looking. Aren't those some gorgeous kids???

Sophia definitely looks like she doesn't feel well. She was a cuddle bug most of the night, mostly in her Daddy's lap. Brian didn't feel well either and he and Sophia missed our dinner at a Mexican restaurant.

The house was busting at the seams with family, as it should be.

We had another white Christmas! Ashton and Juliet posed with snowflakes drifting in their hair.

Christmas is over for another year but the warm memories last forever. What a fabulous day with family.

A Princess Tea Party

2009-12-29T14:43:00.002-06:00

While Robin entertained Ashton and Callan, Juliet and I had a princess tea party. Unfortunately, Juliet was the only one with a princess gown. Memaw had to improvise.
First, we snapped a picture of our little princess in front of the tree. Those gifts will finally get opened this evening. Isn't she a doll? She's definitely princess material.

I hope my lacy blouse and pearls will qualify me as royalty. If not, I think Juliet is decked out enough for us both.

The granddaughters are loving the tea set Robin gave me one Christmas for this very purpose. Since Juliet lives out of state, this was our first time to enjoy a tea party together.

What's a tea party without something sweet to eat? We indulged in some cinnamon rolls while daintily sipping our tea (grape juice). This sweet young princess and the wizened old princess had a royal time!

Christmas at the Farm

2009-12-27T21:43:00.003-06:00

Christmas with the family at the farm was wonderful. However, I'm dismayed that my pictures didn't turn out. Even though they are blurry, I'm posting the better ones. My daughters told me they weren't clear and I assured them they would upload perfectly. I was wrong. I also talked to Clayton about my eyesight and he assured me that family gets a good rate. Having my eyes checked and getting used to a new camera should solve the picture-taking problems.My mother and her sister, Dorothy, in their matching Christmas sweatshirts are proudly showing off Mother's hard work. Again, as she did Thanksgiving, she made ten pies, two cakes, and added her mouth-watering homemade fudge and peanut patties. Exercise should be on my list of New Year's resolutions!

Jude and I got into this picture but we can't take credit for the baked goods, except for the oatmeal cookies I made.

Same camera, clearer picture. Go figure. Robin and my mother are pretending to have this wonderful mother-in-law/son-in-law relationship. Actually, they get along well since they both are good at picking at each other.

Sophia, Callan, and Juliet getting ready to chow down. The cousins were so excited to be together. Thomas spent the night with Jude and Ashton even though the household was functioning on little sleep due to Allison's nanny job and Angela traveling all night. It was great having my baby home for Christmas.

These are my handsome nephews, Ryan and Troy. They belong to my brother Dennis and his wife, Cindy. I appreciate the pose since guys aren't into getting their pictures taken. Thanks, guys!

Tuesday I will finally have all my kids and grandkids together at my house for Christmas. We always have four Christmases at different times to make sure everyone is included. The day doesn't matter. Having family together does.

A White Christmas!

2009-12-25T12:09:00.003-06:00

A white Christmas is a rarity in Texas so we really got excited about the snow. Having plans to stay in anyway just made it perfect. I can remember a time or two when we had snow flurries on Christmas, but never the blizzard we had this time. I just wish I'd gotten my lazy body out of bed early enough to catch the full beauty. Temperatures are above freezing and it's melting fast.

Have a very Merry Christmas!

Merry Christmas!

2009-12-24T22:01:00.002-06:00

Robin and I always enjoy Christmas Eve when we share our Christmas together. It's a special time. Now I'm looking forward to having all my kids here for gifts, dinner and cinnamon rolls next week.
This is the first picture I took with my new camera Robin gave to me. It's PINK! Allison asked if it was a Barbie camera. Funny girl. It's small and will fit nicely in my purse and I'm so proud of it.

I thought I'd sneak in Robin's birthday dinner picture since I hadn't posted it. We chowed down on steak (me) and steak and lobster for Robin.

Robin posing with his new guitar. I bought an instruction book that will come in handy. He's a beginner and a very anxious one at that. I look forward to the day he becomes professional.

Since I picked out my jeans Robin didn't bother to wrap them, just placed a bow on the rear. We had to go to a western store to find Levis in black.

I also picked out the black wool coat he gave me. He selected the guitar he wanted but we still had a few surprises under the tree. I never expected my metallic pink camera. It will really make me a blogging queen.

Merry Christmas to all and have a healthy, happy 2010.

The Divas' Christmas Lunch

2009-12-21T21:23:00.003-06:00

I'm finally getting around to posting the fabulous time the Texas Divas had with our Christmas lunch and gift exchange. Let's just say I have been steadily going crazy with shopping for a husband, 6 kids, 9 grandchildren, Robin's 2 kids and his twin grandchildren. I see the fear in Robin's eyes when he dares to say a word to me. This, too, shall pass (I hope).
We had three special guests join us for our Christmas lunch. This is Leslie, Donna's step-daughter from her former marriage. We were so glad to see her again and marvel at how she has grown up into such a lovely young woman. I hope she will join us again.

Deborah and Cathy were in the Christmas spirit and shared many laughs with us.

Paula P. brought her sister, Trish. We were excited to have her with us and hope she will make it a habit. There's always room for another Texas Diva. Welcome, Trish!

Cathy brought her childhood friend, Shar, who was visiting Cathy at the time. She was a real hoot, just the type we need in our group. She lives further away but we hope she will want to get crazy again with us whenever she is in town.

Patty and I are great childhood friends too. We had a special advantage since it was slumber party weekend. We shopped, wrapped, and laughed a lot. We missed three of our Divas: Jan, Darlene and Allison. Allison was on her way to Missouri for Christmas with her in-laws. Too many absences aren't allowed! Merry Christmas to a group of ladies who save each other a lot of money on therapists. I love you all!

Happy Birthday, Robin!

2009-12-16T11:31:00.003-06:00

The Birthday Boy is proudly displaying his German Chocolate Cake that he gets only once a year. They are time-consuming. One year I slipped in a German chocolate cake mix. He ate a few bites and asked what did I do differently this year. Well, I was lazy but it won't happen again. So I separated 8 eggs, melted chocolate, bought buttermilk that will be thrown out since neither of us will drink it. Ah, but Robin is worth the trouble.
I gave him a bottle of Versace Man, two bags of his favorite candy, a hooded jacket, and a new alarm clock with extra features, including the projection of the time on the ceiling. He wants steak and lobster for dinner so we are going out. I'm ordering steak. No lobster for me. He can have it all.

Happy birthday, Robin. I hope your wonderful, adoring, loving wife makes it all you dreamed it would be. I love you!

Happy Birthday, Angela

2009-12-09T05:13:00.002-06:00

My beautiful Angela is celebrating a birthday today. How I wish I were celebrating with her. But the distance between us is only measured in miles and my heart is with her today and every day. I know her little family will more than take up the slack. They've been known to make her breakfast, pamper her, and I have a feeling an intimate body massage is on the schedule for tonight. Can't beat that, unless I was there to add a good fingernail touch to her back.
I love and admire this girl for many reasons beyond being my wonderful daughter. Her beauty begins on the inside and just blossoms on the outside. She gives time and care to her relationships and is a doting mother to Ashton, Juliet and Callan. I'm sure Clayton will agree that she is a loving and devoted wife (I know where you work, Clayton). She's talented, creative, loving, fun and has a sterling character. Just ask anyone. You don't have to take her mother's word for it.

Happy birthday, Punkin. I thank God for handing me this special delivery ?? years ago. I love you!

My Obsession with Perfume

2009-12-06T15:41:00.003-06:00

A girl just can't have enough perfume. And I have these pictures to prove it. No, I didn't indulge myself with all these beautiful bottles of lovely scents. My family and friends know of my passion and they think of perfume for every occasion. Mostly, they came from Patty who is just as obsessed as I am. Every time she buys herself something new, she buys two so she can share with me. I am blessed.
Robin gave me this standing cabinet for Christmas last year to hold my prized possessions. My vanity was becoming too crowded and I wasn't about to stop my collection.

I have two wall cabinets stocked with my smaller bottles. I estimate that I have around 160 bottles of perfume. About a dozen are loaned out to family. Even my younger granddaughters love to sample the good stuff.

A few bottles still remain on the vanity due to lack of room in the cabinets. I enjoy selecting my fragrance for the day. I have my favorites but still like something different once in awhile. I do not have a signature scent. I tire of the same thing every day. So, a girl really needs variety in her perfume. For those of you who want to know what I want for Christmas, this is it. Of course I still have my other obsession with Peanut M&Ms.

Thanksgiving at the Farm

2009-11-30T21:12:00.005-06:00

It was a bittersweet Thanksgiving this year without my Sugar. Last year he pulled me into his lap and neither of us seemed to want that moment to end. We didn't know it would be the last time. We sure missed him at our family feast. We also missed his beautiful prayer over the meal. But we're all confident that we will sit with him at the great banquet table in heaven one day soon.Donna and I went to help Mother two days before our big family gathering. We went out for Mexican food to treat ourselves before the busy cooking began.

Cousins Joe and Janet came for the night and we enjoyed our visit with them as always. They left early the next morning for Thanksgiving with Janet's brother and family. Thanks, you two, for buying our meal.

I guess no one has told my mother that she is 83. Before we arrived, she had all the dressing and cranberry salad made, rolls mixed up, three cakes baked, and two fruit pies made. Then she spent the day making eight more pies. These crusts were filled with pumpkin, chocolate, coconut and pecan. They were delicious! And a lot of work, but she never complained. While she baked, Donna and I readied the basement, washed dishes, chopped, and ran from one freezer or refrigerator to another. That includes the ones in the three houses on her property. We got our exercise.

My niece Shelley brought her dog and Baylee and Sophia enjoyed getting to know him. Sophia appears a little coy in this picture.

We were happy that Brian brought his parents to share Thanksgiving with us. His mother just lost both her parents so it was a bittersweet time for them too. My sister-in-law Rita lost her mother this year so it seemed appropriate that we all band together.

My brother Dennis didn't need any coaxing to appear in this picture with my beautiful granddaughters. He likes the pretty girls!

Two of my sisters-in-law Cindy and Peggy, and Shelley's step-dad Kenneth.

Our family can boast some beauties! I'm proud to say that these belong to me. My beautiful daughter and four of my beautiful granddaughters.

This is the dessert bar with all the pies and cakes Mother made. One pan of her rolls are in the background on the stove. Yes, she is 83 and simply amazing!

Dennis has him another pretty girl. This time he is wrapping an arm around our niece Shelley. Did I say he likes pretty girls? At this gathering, there were plenty to go around. Happy Thanksgiving.

Texas Divas' November Lunch

2009-11-21T17:07:00.004-06:00

The Texas Divas made a beautiful showing today with only one of our group missing. We miss you Paula F.! We had a fabulous time and so much to catch up on. Let's face it, a lot can happen in one month among 9 ladies!

I'm so proud of our group picture, thanks to our lovely server, Sara. She fit right into our craziness and is even a Twilight fan, which is even better. This is such an awesome group and we have so much fun together.

We were thrilled to have Deborah back with us. She is not allowed to take any more reprieves from the Texas Divas. She always adds her brand of humor and is definitely one of us! These three Divas were in school together as friends.

Donna and Deborah met in the 3rd grade so they go back a ways. I'll be kind and not tally up the number of years they have been friends.

New best friends Jan and Darlene. They had to miss our last lunch and we were so happy to have their smiling faces back in our midst.

This is our server, Sara, and Donna's new BFF. We plan to look for her on Facebook and we've given her my blog address, and hoping she will join our ranks. We need another boost of estrogen since Allison is carrying us all through on her own. Welcome, Sara, and be sure to leave a comment here. We've adopted you. Donna has captured you.

This picture of my sister and daughter just warms my heart. I love the touchy-feely emotions I get when I look at those who are so deeply planted in my soul.

I got to share the spotlight with two dear friends. Patty and I have been friends forever, and even though we only met Paula almost two years ago, she is the type to make you feel that you have been the best of friends for a long time. We just love her to pieces!

We are planning our December lunch for the 19th if all goes well. And Sara, if you're off, be sure to join us instead of serving us.

You are all so special and loved so much!

New Moon!

2009-11-20T18:55:00.002-06:00

Allison, Patty and I decided to be spontaneous and crazy and go to the first showing of New Moon at midnight. We were pumped! We arrived early and checked out several theaters in search of good seats. All screens but one were showing New Moon. Once seated, we sat and waited with much anticipation. I was afraid the teenage girls would be squealing and noisy, but the place was quiet all through the movie. Even Patty and I, the grandma Twilight fans, managed to keep our squeals in check.

It was close to 3:00am when we left the theater. It was beginning to rain, I was driving in an area I'm not too familiar with, and got lost. I have a sense of direction so I stayed pointed the right way and finally saw a landmark I recognized. Were we nervous being lost at 3:00am? Not at all. We were laughing so hard at ourselves. Got to bed at 4:00am and knew our grandchildren would be proud of our midnight adventure. All three of us had a ball!

Sophia's 3rd Birthday Party

2009-11-08T17:05:00.005-06:00

The Lion King birthday party for Sophia was a roaring success. The cake was an absolute work of art. I don't know how Allison's friend was able to make icing to look just like a mane and the face to look like real fur. It takes a talent I don't have. I've considered taking a cake decorating course so that I could make cakes for the grandchildren, but never got around to it. I guess I knew I'd fail. There's not an artistic bone in my body.

Sophia looked a little uncomfortable when we all sang to her. This birthday party stuff at age 3 is still pretty new. But she finally smiled and blew out her candles.

She was clearly Uncle Ron's girl today. She'd been saying for weeks that her uncle Ron was coming to her party.

There's evidence of Memaw's homemade chocolate ice cream on her shirt. That's also evidence of a great time.

Look at that shy expression. She's the center of attention and doesn't quite know how to handle it. She'll catch on.

The kids were encouraged to wear their Halloween costumes to the party and enjoy them another day. Allison really fixed up for the occasion. I asked what she was (this was a kids' party after all) and she said "a pretty, pretty princess". Well, she was wearing a tiara.

I thought she looked great but would look a lot better if she'd added a little more makeup. Something was missing.

While the kids feasted from Lion King plates, the women got to feast our eyes on Edward from Twilight. Naughty girls.

OK, I'm a perv. I admit it. I have a granddaughter older than Edward. But I'm not dead.

Pretty Baylee as Dorothy enjoying birthday cake. It was a perfect day with brisket tacos, dips and chips, lots of sweets and presents and fun. All for our perfect Sophia!

Happy Birthday, Sophia!

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Our pretty little Sophia is 3 years old today. She has grown so much over the past year and her vocabulary has grown with her. She is so funny and sweet and we love to hear her talk.
She really enjoyed her first tea party with Baylee and Memaw. She felt so big being able to pour her tea herself.

Without a doubt, this is the face of an angel, even though it might look very similar to a lion cub.

This was taken over a year ago and it's obvious that she is losing some of that baby face. But at age 3, there's still enough baby face to melt my heart.

Happy birthday, Sophia. Tomorrow we will celebrate your birthday in style. Memaw is bringing the ice cream and cookies for her little princess. I love you sweet girl!

Hunting Season & Slumber Parties Begin!

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Oh, the fun has begun! There is nothing like being free of a routine for the weekend. No dishes, no cooking, no cleaning. While we may not do the town, Patty and I have fun doing nothing. As I write this, she is in bed reading. It's not about entertaining each other. It's about being routine-free as I mentioned.Robin took the camera with him to the deer lease so I'm using an older camera. Please disregard the date. I don't know how to change it. As you can see from these pictures, we went shopping for shoes. BOGO can either be fun or it can be funny. Since we didn't see anything we like we made it funny. Patty can actually get her feet into the children's shoes and here she's modeling a sweet pair of saddle oxfords.

I decided a pair of boots might really look good with my capris. I'm sure I've started a new trend.

These darling shoes are not only too cute but also very warm. You just feel like you are walking on a cloud with all the fuzzy detail. These are a must for the smart dresser.

Robin thought it would be sweet and funny to give Patty and I our own Snuggie. He knows we spend a lot of time with books and this stylish blanket will keep us toasty warm.

Patty is saying, "Yea for our team!". The box even showed how practical and comfortable this Snuggie can be on a flight. When we pack, our Snuggie is going with us!

More to come tomorrow. We aren't through yet!